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I will often say men on dating sites I consider trash and other people may not call them trash but use other terms like undesirable. So what do you consider undesirable or trashy?
1. More than one baby out of wedlock, especially by different people. I am strongly opposed to out of wedlock pregnancies but sometimes they happen. However if they KEEP happening that tells me a few things. First that you don't consider marriage important, second that you don't care who you have sex with, and third we have different values (though you are lacking them). Also, if you have kids and they are on welfare (talking from the point of dating a man)then you aren't doing your job of supporting them.
2. Divorced several times. I understand sometimes not staying together happens. However if it keeps happening it's probably your fault.
3. Expecting sex early or asking for it online. If you ask online we will not meet and if you ask on an early date there will not be another date.
4. Poor hygiene. Seriously, bathe, brush teeth and wear clean clothes and you will look better. If you are a slob I may even walk out on you.
I will often say men on dating sites I consider trash and other people may not call them trash but use other terms like undesirable. So what do you consider undesirable or trashy?
1. More than one baby out of wedlock, especially by different people. I am strongly opposed to out of wedlock pregnancies but sometimes they happen. However if they KEEP happening that tells me a few things. First that you don't consider marriage important, second that you don't care who you have sex with, and third we have different values (though you are lacking them). Also, if you have kids and they are on welfare (talking from the point of dating a man)then you aren't doing your job of supporting them.
2. Divorced several times. I understand sometimes not staying together happens. However if it keeps happening it's probably your fault.
3. Expecting sex early or asking for it online. If you ask online we will not meet and if you ask on an early date there will not be another date.
4. Poor hygiene. Seriously, bathe, brush teeth and wear clean clothes and you will look better. If you are a slob I may even walk out on you.
5. Liars. Enough said.
These people are in my "never dating" category.
So, no one ever taught you that if you can't say something nice about someone, you shouldn't say anything at all?
You know what your standards are and what you are looking for.
Learn to focus on THAT and simply ignore all the rest.
Thinking of other human beings as "trash" is actually kind of trashy in and of itself.
I will often say men on dating sites I consider trash and other people may not call them trash but use other terms like undesirable. So what do you consider undesirable or trashy?
1. More than one baby out of wedlock, especially by different people. I am strongly opposed to out of wedlock pregnancies but sometimes they happen. However if they KEEP happening that tells me a few things. First that you don't consider marriage important, second that you don't care who you have sex with, and third we have different values (though you are lacking them). Also, if you have kids and they are on welfare (talking from the point of dating a man)then you aren't doing your job of supporting them.
2. Divorced several times. I understand sometimes not staying together happens. However if it keeps happening it's probably your fault.
3. Expecting sex early or asking for it online. If you ask online we will not meet and if you ask on an early date there will not be another date.
4. Poor hygiene. Seriously, bathe, brush teeth and wear clean clothes and you will look better. If you are a slob I may even walk out on you.
5. Liars. Enough said.
These people are in my "never dating" category.
People that start threads on forums judging others to be trash.
Someone that talks Trash (duh)
People with no manners.
People that do drugs
Addicts
People under influence
Poor drivers
People that abuse animals
There is an entire list, I don't like thinking about the existence of such qualities.
What do you mean by poor drivers, drinking, speeding or something else? I had a guy friend who got pulled over by cops for drunk driving and sober. He was horrible at driving. Just found out the guy I am interested in has been arrested for speeding three times this year alone and had to go to traffic school. I would agree with that list, especially abusing animals.
There is an entire list, I don't like thinking about the existence of such qualities.
Yeah, I know, right? Like most or all the stuff on the list should be just a given, like--why are we even discussing people like this? Normally, you wouldn't even run into people like this in your life. Ah, but through the miracle of online dating, trash can be accessed in your home, and be in your face, via the internet! They call it "progress".
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