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Old 10-29-2012, 09:28 PM
 
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Oh dear.... Life can be a bugger can't it... consequences eh?

Since he took her back i'll assume she is no longer sad...... yay..
Well she is sad that she hurt him like that. I do think she is remorseful.
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Old 10-29-2012, 09:29 PM
 
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You shouldn't help her get him back because the only thing she deserves is to be kicked down the stairs.
If you read the update, they're back together.
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Old 10-30-2012, 03:52 AM
 
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If you read the update, they're back together.
It doesn't change my opinion.
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Old 10-30-2012, 12:00 PM
 
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She will cheat again, she is just using the guy because she felt bad about it, if she did that and she can lie all she wants, it just happened to me and the ***** used me until she found someone else that wanted to be with. She cheated 9 months ago and now she is with the other guy that she just cheated again on me with.
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Old 10-30-2012, 07:17 PM
 
Location: Earth
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She just feels bad about getting caught...
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Old 10-31-2012, 04:05 PM
 
Location: So. of Rosarito, Baja, Mexico
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Some times the taste of NEW Honey can turn out BITTERSWEET.
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Old 11-02-2012, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Michigan
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The best thing to do would be to cheer her up with something; but don't get involved... It's their relationship not yours. Don't know how many times that other people have to explain that.
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Old 11-02-2012, 06:28 PM
 
Location: United States of America
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My friend cheated on her bf and well he caught her, as in really busted her. But the guy is undecided and they're still talking it out. This happened last month.

Anyway I can help my gf get her man back? Thing is he's thinking about it and according to her, he told her if she can help him recover from and believe it's not gonna happen again then he'll give it another try.
If someone got caught cheating and the person is undecided, how can he/she prove to them that they can be trusted again?
First, you stay out of it because it isn't your relationship and don't try to help her recover anything when she destroyed it and got caught red handed. I know that sounds cold hearted of me, but if there is one thing I cannot tolerate is infidelity. It makes me question everything and then the person only feels guilty and sad when they get caught.

There was no guilt in her actions, her boyfriend wasn't a thought, and bottom line he should move. She can't guarantee she will be faithful again. If there is one thing I learned and take to heart, once a cheater always a cheater. Sorry that is just the way I feel. But I know it won't be easy because he sounds like he really loves her and cares for her, and she blew it

She just cannot be trusted in my eyes
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