My friend got caught cheating and she's sad (couple, problems, relation)

[Faxton9]

Originally Posted by SD4020

He needs to dump her pronto.

I agree but what if she doesn't do it again as promised?

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by Faxton9

I agree but what if she doesn't do it again as promised?

It's still between them. It's their relationship and it's up to them.

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by Faxton9

Well he's contacting her too.

Who? The BF or the old flame?

Originally Posted by Faxton9

I agree but what if she doesn't do it again as promised?

If she is still in contact with the old flame, she is not sorry for her actions only for being caught. Then her promise is not worth a damn.

It is between those two and none of your business.

If she were by GF, she would be ditched so fast it woudn't be funny.

[Faxton9]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

It's still between them. It's their relationship and it's up to them.

Hopefully they can both move on from this mess. I would hate to see her beating herself over this for a long time.

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by Faxton9

Hopefully they can both move on from this mess. I would hate to see her beating herself over this for a long time.

People make mistakes. How you handle them and what you learn from them - these are the things that shape a person's character.

[Faxton9]

Originally Posted by SD4020

Who? The BF or the old flame?

No, definitely not the flame. It's the bf I meant. She has stop talking with the old flame.

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by Faxton9

No, definitely not the flame. It's the bf I meant. She has stop talking with the old flame.

ok. I know what my decision would be. In the end it is his problem.

Fool me once or cheat on me once, shame on me. Fool me again or cheat on me again shame on me. BF would be wise to remember that.

[lovesthebass]

These types of relationships almost never end well.

He should end it and save both of them some serious future headaches. Trust is a very difficult thing to reestablish.

[kat949]

It's really up to the person who got cheated on to find it in their hearts to forgive and truly give the other person a chance.

I know some guys who have been cheated on who gave their gf's another chance. Now they have kids together.

It can happen. I personally think it's up to the couple. For me, I'd be like here's the door. Late.

[Jean71]

Originally Posted by lovesthebass

These types of relationships almost never end well.

He should end it and save both of them some serious future headaches. Trust is a very difficult thing to reestablish.

This.

He may not realize it now but he needs space too. He should also back off and create some space. They need to do their own thing and keep contact minimal.

If it was meant to it will be.