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Old 10-12-2012, 06:33 PM
 
Location: USA
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Explain please. No guy is ever going to take it "slow" no matter what he said during the first date if things progress beyond a kiss. I wouldn't anyway, even if I had honest intentions of moving "slow"
Speak for yourself dude. Taking it Slow for a bit can add to the 'Wow Bang Shazam factor ' when you get there. I'm not talkin "blue Ballz 3 month manditory waiting" but holding off a little to make it make it much better. To each his own though.
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Which would you pick: Bad food or no food?
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:36 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Obviously sticking w/ none. bizarre the way people carry on about 'bad' sex or sex in general. who cares.

And no guy is going to 'take things slow,' yea right. naive for even believing something like that in the first place years ago. That is just some b.s. they say to get their 'foot in the door,' once that happens they will attempt to speed up the process to their liking.
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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I'd always take bad over no sex. Besides, sex is a learned skill/activity. There's always the possibility of improvement with practice for those interested in learning.

I'm starting to feel sorry for you Doll Eyes. I'm starting to wonder if you have been worked over by some people in your life, because you sound bitter and unhappy in everyting you post.
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Speak for yourself dude. Taking it Slow for a bit can add to the 'Wow Bang Shazam factor ' when you get there. I'm not talkin "blue Ballz 3 month manditory waiting" but holding off a little to make it make it much better. To each his own though.
First date, you're kissing with tongue and she can't keep her hands off you. Are you just going to push her away and say goodnight?
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:37 PM
 
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Bad sex. Its still sex. Dont really think there is such a thing as "bad sex".
It comes down to YOUR expectations.
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:43 PM
 
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Curious as to whether or not you've had a pleasurable sexual experience with a member of the opposite sex
Nope my curiosity with sex ended ala statistics showing how the likelihood of orgasm for women and how many women orgasm consistently. In my opinion a pleasurable sexual experience is far more likely to happen with masturbation than with a d*ck.
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:44 PM
 
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Explain please. No guy is ever going to take it "slow" no matter what he said during the first date if things progress beyond a kiss. I wouldn't anyway, even if I had honest intentions of moving "slow"
You'd be surprised.

I've actually mostly dated guys who were fine with "slow." Heck, the ex-biker I lived with was totally against even kissing on the first date. The one guy I dated who fully expected to sleep with me on the first date (I set him straight on that pretty quick) turned out to be the most insecure of the guys I've been with. Which was why things never really progressed beyond FWB with him.
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:52 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Udolipixie: That's too bad for you, as my wife has been consistently been able to orgasm for over 30 years and still does.
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Old 10-12-2012, 06:57 PM
 
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Udolipixie: That's too bad for you, as my wife has been consistently been able to orgasm for over 30 years and still does.
Unsure why it's too bad for me when I've also been able to consistently orgasm for years as well.
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