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Old 01-13-2013, 03:05 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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Yesterday, I was washing my car outside my house. My guy neighbor comes up to me and started a conversation. He's married and has two small kids.
Him: Hey, are you off today?
Me: yes
Him: I just got home.what are you doing tonight
Me: maybe just chill at home.
Him: you are not going out? Do you have a bf?
Me: no I'm single.
Him: really? Your too pretty to be single.
Me: I haven't met someone I really like. You should introduce me to your friends.
Him: what about me?
Me: where's your wife and kids?
Him: they went to a party. Do u go out with friends?
Me: I do.
Him: you should invite me when you go. Do you go to clubs?
Me: mostly to bars.
Him: yeah it would be fun. Take me when you go. Do you drink?
Me: I do.
Him. Lets drink sometimes.
Me: ask your wife if she will let you ( I laughed)
Him: don't worry about her. I know what to say.
Me: I will talk to you later. I need to make a phone call.
Him: ok text me

He texts me hi, hello, what are you doing sometimes. I didn't really give any meaning to it before other than him being friendly. Now, it bothers me that maybe hes not being faithful to his wife or was he just being flirty.
He has a pretty wife so I don't see why he would look somewhere else. Im not interested in him.What do you think should I do?

Last edited by YellowT; 01-13-2013 at 03:12 PM.. Reason: Edit
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:08 PM
 
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Of course it's not all right -- and you should give him a very cold shoulder -- unless you're a little interested. Then ask yourself why would you put up with a married guy flirting with you.

As for why -- it doesn't matter how pretty or nice his wife is, he would like to have some side action.
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:11 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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He's looking for some strange for sure.
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:11 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Eww, sleazy
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:13 PM
 
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Originally Posted by YellowT View Post
Yesterday, I was washing my car outside my house. My guy neighbor comes up to me and started a conversation. He's married and has two small kids.
Him: Hey, are you off today?
Me: yes
Him: I just got home.what are you doing tonight
Me: maybe just chill at home.
Him: you are not going out? Do you have a bf?
Me: no I'm single.
Him: really? Your too pretty to be single.
Me: I haven't met someone I really like. You should introduce me to your friends.
Him: what about me?
Me: where's your wife and kids?
Him: they went to a party. Do u go out with friends?
Me: I do.
Him: you should invite me when you go. Do you go to clubs?
Me: mostly to bars.
Him: yeah it would be fun. Take me when you go. Do you drink?
Me: I do.
Him. Lets drink sometimes.
Me: ask your wife if she will let you ( I laughed)
Him: don't worry about her. I know what to say.
Me: I will talk to you later. I need to make a phone call.
Him: ok text me

He texts me hi, hello, what are you doing sometimes. I didn't really give any meaning to it before other than him being friendly. Now, it bothers me that maybe hes not being faithful to his wife or was he just being flirty.
He has a pretty wife so I don't see why he would look somewhere else. Im not interested in him.What do you think should I do?
Clearly you think it is.
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:30 PM
 
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Way disrespectful to his wife. I'd tell him you don't appreciate it, and if he doesn't stop, show the messages to his wife. Bleccchh.
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:37 PM
 
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What a creep. It seems that he is not worried that you could tell his wife and does not care that you know that he is married and with two kids. I would avoid him, hopefully he will get the message and not insist.
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:39 PM
 
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Pretty sleazy. I am friendly with the people next door, but that is about it
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:41 PM
 
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He definitely crossed the line and his intentions were made pretty clear.
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:51 PM
 
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Men are just falling all over themselves for you huh?

Ignore him. Problem solved.

PS...why does he have your phone number??
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