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I don't even expect my "own kind" to see me as dateable considering how they love to take every opportunity to post threads about how I'm not. Congratulations to all of you who belong to a perfect race and can't imagine not preferring them over anyone else, but I don't share your sentiments.
Why do you care? You stated earlier that you have no interest in black men and that they don't have the attributes that you are looking for.
Just WOW! Interesting is right, you forgot the one about wanting to make sure the kiddies come out bi.
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Originally Posted by Plzeň
Well, for starters, "midget" is an offensive term in and of itself. To answer your question, though, if you went on and on for several posts about how unattractive they are to you, then yes, I think most would consider that bashing, even if it's being "honest."
Such is life, it's clearly understood what's going on, I just try my best not to participate in the dance. Hoping it will soon be over.
Even though there are many black men that date out already, there are even more black guys that secretly lust after asians/white women but many are afraid to admit it because the love is not reciprocated. Many are just settling for their own race of women to avoid problems, but I tell these black men to go after who you really want. Life is too short.
Exactly, you think I would let people on here tell me who I should date/be attracted to?
That's the levels angry black women resort to when black men date outside their race. I don't think no other race of women do this, I never see white women resort to nasty comment like this when White dudes date nothing but asian chicks.
You're wasting your time by going back and fourth about your preferences as a black man, there is absolutely no level of explanation that you could give that would satisfy some of the posters on here. They are judging you from a perspective of how they believe "black men" think, act and behave. Essentially you are not defending yourself, but the actions of an entire race of men. You best believe that if a white guy walked in here and said exactly what you just said about Asian, Latin and Black Women--this discussion wouldn't even cross anyone's minds. But because you're a black man then the script is dusted off, pulled out and announced "oh yeah--sell out, because that's how they always are."A a matter of fact--quite a few of the women on here would be beaming with smiles at the very idea of a white guy saying exactly what youv'e stated in your OP.
Also take note, the same people calling you a "sell out" on here, are the same people (male and female posters alike) who applaud black women for being interested in males of other races and congratulate them for being "open minded" and for "exploring their options" no matter what the reason.
As for Asian women, I haven't had much interest myself, but I certainly grabbed the attention of quite a few in more diverse areas in large cities. As many of them grow up a bit more distanced from the traditional Asian family structure, you'll find that a lot of them are becoming acclimated to a much more diverse set of co-workers, colleagues and friends--so naturally an attraction is likely to occur.But I think it's fairly simple--if that's what you're attracted to, then you have to go to where they are. Women (unless you are a celebrity or someone with a high degree of noteriety) are definitely not going to make the first move, and this probably rangs much more true with Asian women. You'll probably have to do a bit of straight forward asking out before you find what it is that you are looking for. From what I've seen, quite a number of them expect the man to be very aggressive (and not in the negative way.)
It wouldn' let me rep you again, but you're 100% right.
That's the levels angry black women resort to when black men date outside their race. I don't think no other race of women do this, I never see white women resort to nasty comment like this when White dudes date nothing but asian chicks.
I have never understood this about some black guys. What does your dating preferences have to do with black women?
Who cares if some black women don't like your preferences.
Sad and true. Thanks God African and Carribean black men aren't this ridiculous.
Lol, My parents are from the Carribean(Trinidad) and I can tell you right now most carribean men have negative sterotypes(weather right or wrong) about American black women, and usually want to date/marry their own. Unless they're trying to get their papers.
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Such is life, it's clearly understood what's going on, I just try my best not to participate in the dance. Hoping it will soon be over.
