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I see more and more men who don't like them, I think the ladies like them....... that part of the free market is at work.
Personally (as a guy) I don't mind the way they look but I hate the way they feel. That means they're good for porn stars but not for girlfriends, as far as I'm concerned.
If you're outgoing and interesting, that shouldn't be a problem. Black and Asian interracial coupling isn't exactly uncommon provided the parents aren't too against it.
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Originally Posted by Raena77
Ha. I like Asian men. Sterotype -smart.
I live in a community with large Asian population. Unless they're immigrants here to study or working professional with visas, I find the brainy types that I like tend to be non Asians.
If you carefully read what I wrote, you will see that I am not accusing you of that. You have a racial preference. It is not your own race. It happens, but it is not the norm. I grew up in an Italian household. I find Italian women to be the most attractive. Many men in Italy seem to be perfectly happy with their attractive Italian wives or girlfriends. I can't say I blame them.
Its only the norm because most people let society tell them who they should date.
Its only the norm because most people let society tell them who they should date.
There is a huge difference between being told who you should or should not date (which no one is doing in this thread by the way) and not being attracted to people who look like you. The latter is what most people find odd.
For example, I have had non-Black men tell me that they only date Black women. Why would I, as a Black woman, be "flattered" by a comment of that nature? I would never date a guy who did not see the beauty in women who look like his mother, sisters, grandmother, aunts, etc. Men who have racial fetishes are extremely unappealing.
So what does a man who can not see the beauty of women who possess his own physical racial features say when he procreates and has children that possess HIS physical racial features? What does that man say to his half Black/half Asian daughter when he has expressed a lack of attractiveness to the very racial features that his own daughter now possesses? Its quite bizzare.
If you're outgoing and interesting, that shouldn't be a problem. Black and Asian interracial coupling isn't exactly uncommon provided the parents aren't too against it.
I live in a community with large Asian population. Unless they're immigrants here to study or working professional with visas, I find the brainy types that I like tend to be non Asians.
I agree there is a level of intelligence in every race. But stereotypes are there. And every man and woman knows what they are attracted to.
I don't see what's so hard to understand about it.
One who refuses to date their own kind because their OWN kind doesn't have the required attributes, but then expects others to see them as dateable.
Such arrogance.
It's kind of like saying that you are the exception and the only good person of your kind.
Me personally, I only date white and expect any women in my life I date to do the same. If a white woman chooses to date other races in addition to her own, thats her CHOICE, but I am not with it personally.
Whites are dwindling as a race. Maybe if whites had a bigger population I would be 'ok' with it.
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