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Old 02-12-2013, 08:49 AM
 
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Please admit it.........you like it when a guy is checking you out, don't you?

I don't mean in a perverted kind of way. You see a guy checking you out as you walk by him and you look slightly to the side to see if he's still checking you out after you've past him by.

I get caught everytime..........oh well. I adore you gals.



So just admit it, you like it, that's why you look to see if we're still looking at you're backside when you walk by.


Ladies, be honest, for once.
Nope never like it, that's one of the reasons why most men creep me out. I actually posted earlier how I am glad my husband does not look at my chest while talking to me even when we were still dating. Spoke too soon though coz I caught him checking my butt few times yesterday. Maybe it's just the sweat pants I was wearing LOL. But I did tease him that I now know that he is a butt guy and not a chest guy and he denies it.

Told him there's no point to lie, LOL.
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:51 AM
 
Location: St Augustine
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I get caught looking at my lady friend's rear end all the time.

I told her she must be good at sports.
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:55 AM
 
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I would say there are less than 5% of males in this world who I appreciate checking me out. The rest leave much to be desired.
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Old 02-12-2013, 09:39 AM
 
Location: US
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Ehhh

Hate it. I think its creepy.
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Austin
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I guess I'd find it flattering since these days I feel so relaxed in the looks department. I'm not talking people of Wal-Mart relaxed but I'm pretty much a jeans/shorts and t-shirt kind of gal and go out most days without makeup. I'd have to pay attention enough to see if people do it which I don't. These days a man would have to basically tackle me to get my attention in public.
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Some will like it, some will not. And some who do like it, will only like it if it's an appropriate situation. At work during a meeting or on a dark street corner is not appropriate. At a party or a meetup, sure, go for it.
^^^^ I agree. It's only appropriate in certain situations
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:24 AM
 
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^^^^ I agree. It's only appropriate in certain situations
True, but wouldn't you dress for those certain situations?

In an office environment if a woman comes dressed in a low cut, cleavage exposing blouse with a push-up bra, with a skirt that hugs her bottom, damn straight I am going to look. I will keep it professional, (try to) keep eye contact, and get on with my day, but yes, some checking out will be done.

Normal business attire will not attract the same attention.

Sure, there is a gray area here, and I do not want to blame the victim. But the extent to which you are going to be checked out ( male or female) is going to be proportional to your attractiveness, what you wear, how you present yourself, and the situation. You do have some control over this.
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:35 AM
 
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Nope! I don't care. More often than not, it has to be pointed out to me that someone is looking.
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Nope! I don't care. More often than not, it has to be pointed out to me that someone is looking.
Hey

:nudge:

:gestures with eyes:

that dude's checking you out
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:40 AM
 
Location: My House
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Depends. If it's a guy that I want to be looking at me? Yes.

If it's not someone leering at me creepily? Maybe.

If I'm in a bad mood and I don't know you? I'm gonna shoot you the evil eye.
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