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Old 02-15-2013, 12:42 PM
 
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Some will like it, some will not. And some who do like it, will only like it if it's an appropriate situation. At work during a meeting or on a dark street corner is not appropriate. At a party or a meetup, sure, go for it.
Unless you're trying to catch a trick on the street, woooooh baby!!!

Seriously, too much emphasis is being put into when and where a guy should check out a woman. If a hot woman crosses my path, I'm going to give her a good look. Simple as that. I think some guys don't take into consideration that druel doesn't just come from the mouth. The wide eyed gaze can totally set a woman off and make you come across as a creep.

My golden rule is to count one-one-thousand, 3 times. The best is when a woman gives me absolute permission to take a good look at her, usually after me telling her how beautiful she is. When I start it with a compliment, the hot woman in question often lets me check her out. I make sure not to look at her with perverted eyes but an honest, yet innocent appreciation of her good looks.
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Old 02-16-2013, 10:24 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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The older I get the better I like it, so long as I feel safe and not creeped out and I don't even care if he's not attractive to me--it's still flattering. The only time I get truly offended is when the checker-outer is with a wife or SO and openly looks. Can't stand those types. When I was married though I almost never noticed if someone was checking me out or not or I just assumed they were being friendly lol.
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Old 02-16-2013, 10:32 AM
 
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Women like it...so long as it is someone they find at least mildly attractive and the guy isn't creepy about it.
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Old 02-16-2013, 05:08 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Women like it...so long as it is someone they find at least mildly attractive and the guy isn't creepy about it.
Sometimes yes. If we are in a hurry or bad mood it's annoying. Especially if the advances are from a player.
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Old 02-16-2013, 06:15 PM
 
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I'm all for it. Of course I want to know I'm desirable. Who doesn't?

It is kind of nerve racking when you walk past a group of men and they stop talking, or you hear them making comments. Oh well.
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Old 02-17-2013, 10:16 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Unless you're trying to catch a trick on the street, woooooh baby!!!

Seriously, too much emphasis is being put into when and where a guy should check out a woman. If a hot woman crosses my path, I'm going to give her a good look. Simple as that. I think some guys don't take into consideration that druel doesn't just come from the mouth. The wide eyed gaze can totally set a woman off and make you come across as a creep.

My golden rule is to count one-one-thousand, 3 times. The best is when a woman gives me absolute permission to take a good look at her, usually after me telling her how beautiful she is. When I start it with a compliment, the hot woman in question often lets me check her out. I make sure not to look at her with perverted eyes but an honest, yet innocent appreciation of her good looks.
I think the three second rule is pretty good. Or it's variation, the three glances rule. Anything beyond that turns from "innocent appreciation" into creeper territory, in her eyes. So if you're going to open conversation it should be fairly early in the proceedings, before she notices that you're noticing her for too long a period of itme.
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