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Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Alright guys I was not totally honest with yall. Ya'll know I am one honest guy.
Back in Feb. I told you about my failure to "get out the blocks" to lose my virginity. Well I went back and tried it again a week later. Let's just say the D "got the job done." Not once but a few times. I turned her out like a sweater in the wash.
Now fast forward to the end March and I have a new problem. She texted me and told me she missed her period over the weekend.
I have no idea what I am gonna do. I didn't sleep at all this weekend. How the hell am I gonna provide for the kid if she keeps it and it is mine?
Man up and prepare to raise your child. Kids are easy. I've raised two as a single father myself. Changing chitty diapers takes a little getting used to. You might want to start stocking up on the Huggies now. They'll come in handy later!
What you're gonna do is learn a few very hard lessons here my friend.
(About saving sex for someone you actually see as potential long term relationship material, or at least someone you wouldn't mind seeing be the mother of one of your children for starters - and using TWO forms of birth control in the future).
First of all, don't panic - chances are better that she is NOT pregnant than that she is.
BREATHE DEEP.
Nothing has to be decided right this moment, you need time to calm yourself and just think through things okay?
You're educated, you're a working man - you can afford to pay child support if you have to.
Duh me, you know, just yesterday I posted my best friend used to pull the pregnancy thing calling me up getting me all excited to be an aunt Rosa and here I was about to fall for it again. Dammit. Well I hope it's a prank.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
26,700 posts, read 41,763,058 times
Reputation: 41381
Hold up. Before I do anything, I will demand a paternity test and keep any contact between us through lawyers for the time being. I highly doubt that I am the only possible father.
Hold up. Before I do anything, I will demand a paternity test and keep any contact between us through lawyers for the time being. I highly doubt that I am the only possible father.
Oh good grief - don't take that tone and stand with her right off the bat.
Let her at least find out if she is in fact even pregnant.
Just tell her you are very concerned about this and need her to go ahead and get a test done ASAP so you can know the results.
Oh good grief - don't take that tone and stand with her right off the bat.
Let her at least find out if she is in fact even pregnant.
Just tell her you are very concerned about this and need her to go ahead and get a test done ASAP so you can know the results.
DON'T PANIC and have any knee jerk reactions.
This ^^^^^
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