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Women often live in a fantasy world ,want you to read their mind and such.
Forget it . Your whole life will be used up trying to read her mind.
If she want's you she would be with you , if you have to fight for her she is using you . You'd be fighting for her all the rest of your life one way or another..and she' d be letting you dangle all the while.
move on .
ok, this 's first time I share my story in forum. I have a really close friend, I and her known each other when we were children and we had a wonderful friendship. When we grow up, we both have many relationship in school but we still are good friends. I fall in love with her when we a freshman in university but she never know, I always care about her, do everythings to make her happy and hope...I dont have confidence to tell her I love her.
And last week, she said she have a boyfriend. I know it's good for her but I feel so sad.
Everybody, do I have a chance to win her heart, what should I do in this situation?
Thanks for reading, I hope I can deal with bad status.
English is not my native language, sorry if I have some mistake
If you have been friends since childhood, then I think it's safe to say that is all she sees you as, is a friend.
If you fell in love with her but never said anything to her, that is your fault for not speaking up. You should not do things to make her happy and behave in a way a boyfriend would, when she is not your girlfriend. You have to do more than hope, you have to speak up. You can't expect her to guess.
But at this time, she has a boyfriend now, so you need to leave it alone and move forward and open your heart to meeting others.
Thanks for all comments.
I read all and see that I should move on and let her be with that guy. ok I think It's good for her.
But Should I tell her my feeling? I don't care about her response, I dont want to hide anymore, It's make me bad
We spent many times with each other, we hang out together in valentine day, x-mast... like lovers, we live together in a apartment(different room, sure) and study together in university. You know It's hard to forget her and meet other girls
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