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My thought is if he's had feelings for her, why didn't he make them known before she met someone else? Why does he suddenly have courage to speak up when she's not available? That's what I think is kind of crappy, that now that she's met someone, he, as her friend, wants to create confusion for her and risk their friendship. If a longtime male friend of mine did that to me, I would not be happy or flattered and would not like feel manipulated and deceived about our friendship.
She will not happy when I speak up? Your comment make me confused
She will not happy when I speak up? Your comment make me confused
I don't know how she will feel but I would not be happy about it. I would be annoyed that you have been my friend for years, and wonder if you have been a genuine friend. I would wonder if you have been trying to manipulate me by doing nice things for me, to get something from me, instead of telling me how you feel. Then I meet and start dating someone else and you now decide to tell me how you feel, which doesn't show any consideration for me or my feelings.
Again, I don't know what she would think, but I would not be pleased with you. The time to tell her how you feel and see if there was a possibility for a relationship was when you were both single, not when she met and started dating someone else.
This is such a nice guy, who finish last mentality. LMFAO. In most of my relationship, I've always done the chasing. Every guy I've ever known has chase after a girl that they latter married. None of us have sat around and wait and play with our thumbs and hope one day a girl just magically show up at church waiting to get married to us. LMFAO.
OP,
if you listen to this advice. You might as well let everyone else in life step all over you. And while you are at it, bend over and take it as well. ROFL. Would you rather be a nice guy and not step on anyone's toe and not get the girl? Or would you rather step on a few toes and have a chance to have the girl of your dream in your life? Besides, it's not like she's married. She is single. All is fair game until she is married.
Nice Guy who finished last??? Yeah right. You have no idea what you are talking about. What kind of sorry simp would even want to be with a woman that has a boyfriend. SHE IS NOT SINGLE. SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. MOVE ON. And PLEASE for GODS SAKE....PLEASE STOP CHASING AFTER WOMAN.
Some of you guys on this thread need to up your game. With the right conversation you won't need to CHASE AND BEG a woman. There is a special name out here for guys that CHASE after woman.
I've just met her boyfriend, that's such a awesome guy. Rich, friendly, funny and good looking. ok, I quit, I have no chance. She basically choose a right man for her.
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