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I'm not sure if this is the way a wife should act in the marriage. This is really my first marriage and I'm 25 years old and she's 24.
We've been together for 2 years, engaged for a couple months and married for a year now. The problem is for the past 5 months every time we argue, she gets into these ridiculous tantrums and suddenly it's all my fault all the time. Most of the time I don't even start arguing; she does.
In her tantrums, she stomps on things, calls me the most horrible names and even throws objects. I've having a hard time dealing with her sudden mood swings and so I keep leaving but this is stressing me out. What happened to the woman I once dated, proposed to and married? There weren't these weird tantrums.
It gets to the point I have watch what I'm going say or do because then all this hell starts again and once she gets to that point, it takes her several days later to talk to me.
I just want to make her happy and it seems like I can't do anything right. Last time, I left angrily and this almost caused me to crashed my car. She kept screaming in my face and honestly, she scared me. It seemed like at any time she would have probably hit me or something.
And lately, she's having issues with some of my family members.
How did you handle conflicts when you were dating? Is there something going on in her life with her job or her health or her family that would trigger her to lash out?
OP, she may have kept a pre-existing condition from you (via medication) and has now stopped doing that. Or, she could be freaking out about marriage and is projecting. Either way, you should consider confronting her about her behavior, include something constructive (e.g., counseling) to do about it, and decide whether you need to leave a toxic situation before it gets worse.
In my experience, it won't get better over time. It will likely get much worse.
I've told her that she needs help but she keeps denying there is anything wrong with her. I get all the blame in the end.
I've never been this stressed before. There are times I've felt like raising my voice in return but I leave instead. Sometimes it's difficult as she follows me and won't stop,.
I'm not sure if this is the way a wife should act in the marriage. This is really my first marriage and I'm 25 years old and she's 24.
We've been together for 2 years, engaged for a couple months and married for a year now. The problem is for the past 5 months every time we argue, she gets into these ridiculous tantrums and suddenly it's all my fault all the time. Most of the time I don't even start arguing; she does.
This board has a lot of participants whose focus is on dating, getting dates and the like. There is a forum that will help you a lot more, I suspect. It is Talk About Marriage - The Marriage Advice & Relationship Help Forums. The moderators have pets. So if your tone is not harvey milktoast, happy sweetness and light, they will misunderstand and ban. But if you play your problem straight on the men's clubhouse, you will get good advice. Good luck.
Whatever you do dont get her pregnant! Make sure you know where you are going first before you do the next thing, babies make things worse when the situation is like this.
Whatever you do dont get her pregnant! Make sure you know where you are going first before you do the next thing, babies make things worse when the situation is like this.
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