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Old 05-20-2013, 10:51 AM
 
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Think about how things work in nature and you'll figure it out.
Well female lions hunt for food and run the pride, and only use the males to make babies. Once they are done using the males, they are kicked out of the pride. So, that's "nature".
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Here come the feminists who are afraid of a man who speaks the truth. Nothing you posted makes any sense at all. There's always this idea that sometime, long long ago, there were these men that stood at college doors and turned women away. Or was it that many women weren't interested in college because they wanted to raise well adjusted kids?
And you're saying there weren't? I work at a university, and if you go into the archives of this (and many other universities) and read the records, there were very clearly stated curricula that were different for men and women students. Women had to fight to be able to take what are now called STEM classes and to be taken seriously as scholars, not just girls biding time until they found a husband. Early on, women may not have been interested in higher education because of a kind of learned helplessness. If you're told all your life that something is not available to you, you don't strive for it.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:03 AM
 
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And you're saying there weren't? I work at a university, and if you go into the archives of this (and many other universities) and read the records, there were very clearly stated curricula that were different for men and women students. Women had to fight to be able to take what are now called STEM classes and to be taken seriously as scholars, not just girls biding time until they found a husband.
Exactly. Yes, historically, women were literally turned away at the door in many cases. I mean it's just silly to pretend otherwise, there is documentation of this.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:03 AM
 
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Why even bother to date these days?


Well, how else do you expect to find out the age of these fossils?
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:07 AM
 
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It seems like there is no point these days to even date. Most times in the dating world men have to do almost everything. And women don't have to do much of anything. There was a study that said that men are much happier just being single and women are lonelier than ever. Most marriages end up in divorce these days so why even bother to date? Let’s all just stay single I say. What do you all think? I think the feminist movement is really destroying America and the dating world.

My belief on why men are more happier these days:

1. Most men these days a single and not in relationships.
2. Men get mutual sex from women without paying.
3. None of the drama that comes with being in a relationship.
4. Men don't have to worry so much about his financial status.
5. Most men have very low standards.


My belief on why women are lonelier these days:

1. To independent the man is not needed.
2. The feminist movement destroyed the dating world.
3. More and more men don't want children including myself.
4. More and more men these days don't want relationships including myself.
5. Most women have very high standards.

Hmm:
I think men and women would do much better being alone. We will all do better if we just have casual sex and make babies. We can still make babies but not be together. The man can take care of his baby but not be with the woman.

Personal Experiences:

From my personal experiences I do much better with women been single. When I was in relationships all I did is cheat and I didn't get along with women.

My final thoughts:

With the type of society that we live in now marriage is a thing of the past. These days men and women are equal, and some cases women more so than men. Because of these changes I think men and women should just be associates. We will still love women (after all we love your itty bitty waist and that big butt that pokes out with it) we love them but I don't think we should ever be with them. We still need each other to make babies and that should be done. But other than that I don't think we should have no other type of relationship what do you all think?


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How do you be more "equal" than someone else?

And women are lonely these days?

Ummm... what city are you living in. Perhaps they can benefit from my company.

...Then again I see some lonely women in my area, so I'm not quite done yet.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:08 AM
 
Location: Upstate NY/NJ
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Rape is generally how male/female relations work in most of the animal kingdom, but surely you're not advocating that. We're supposed to strive to be evolved as humans.
Oh, here we go...it took a few posts but the rape comment finally came out
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:11 AM
 
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Oh, here we go...it took a few posts but the rape comment finally came out
Damn but you're an angry person.

It might benefit you to look within for these "problems" instead of blaming them on society.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:11 AM
 
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I think feminism has been awesome for dating!

Feminism is mostly about getting better sex for everyone, after all.

- birth control

- STI awareness and prevention

- women with education and jobs, who don't lean on men financially

- oral sex, anal sex, sex toys, porn, lots of different positions -- all these are now mainstream

- women who know and love their bodies, and know and love the bodies of their partners

I think what makes for the best sex, and what scares the more easily-firightened sort of man the most, is that women now have sex by choice most of the time, rather than out of a sense of obligation. She doesn't have to put up with bad sex just to land a man. She can support herself, and is with a man because she wants him, not because she and his kids will starve without him.
My favorite types of women.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Upstate NY/NJ
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No, sometimes it's just about choice, imagine that.

You seem pretty angry and are cooking up some exaggerated scenarios of your own to support that.
You're right, its choice. And most men are choosing not to lose 1/2 their stuff and risk paying alimony because a women has the "choice" to stay or go when the road gets a little rough. Most vows (I thought) were forever. So, if its about choice, don't tell a man "till death do us part".

Its so easy to call a man "angry" when he's expressing his opinion. Its all done in an effort to emasculate males (you and the other poster who likes to drop the "rapist" bomb). Honestly, its a tired old tactic and most modern men can see through this. There's nothing angry about stating your opinion in a public forum. And we will.
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Old 05-20-2013, 11:20 AM
 
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You're right, its choice. And most men are choosing not to lose 1/2 their stuff and risk paying alimony because a women has the "choice" to stay or go when the road gets a little rough. Most vows (I thought) were forever. So, if its about choice, don't tell a man "till death do us part".

Its so easy to call a man "angry" when he's expressing his opinion. Its all done in an effort to emasculate males (you and the other poster who likes to drop the "rapist" bomb). Honestly, its a tired old tactic and most modern men can see through this. There's nothing angry about stating your opinion in a public forum. And we will.
WTH??? I just argued AGAINST the belief in widespread rape in nature.

No, I'm not trying to emasculate you. Again, you're seeing things that aren't there because of your own fear and your own beliefs. I can only suggest that you seek some sort of help for this mindset because you do NOT seem to be a happy person and you seem to have tremendous anxiety about women.

That's about all I can say.
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