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Old 07-05-2013, 10:41 AM
 
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I thought the points in this article were quite logical - kind of see it as a useful checklist for a woman looking for an exclusive and monogamous relationship.

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Old 07-05-2013, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Great article. I agree!
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Old 07-05-2013, 11:51 AM
 
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I guess divorce him when he turns 40...lol

Chris Rock said it best: "a man is only as faithful as his options"
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Old 07-05-2013, 12:10 PM
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Location: Phoenix,AZ
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Silly article.

Why?

The studies it cites don't consider alcohol or boobies.

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Old 07-05-2013, 12:15 PM
 
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Silly article.

Why?

The studies it cites don't consider alcohol or boobies.

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It doesn't site number of tatoos, how many Baby Mama's he has or the size of his ding-a-ling either. Brain dead article
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Old 07-05-2013, 12:23 PM
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It doesn't site number of tatoos, how many Baby Mama's he has or the size of his ding-a-ling either. Brain dead article
I know.

From what I've seen, adultery usually involves booze and a bar.

Word of wisdom:

Don't marry a traveling salesman that likes to drink.
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Old 07-05-2013, 12:27 PM
 
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It doesn't site number of tatoos, how many Baby Mama's he has or the size of his ding-a-ling either. Brain dead article
Why? These are pretty obvious things to consider. It makes perfect sense that someone with a low level of empathy, unreasonable expectations, little capacity for emotional intimacy or guilt, or low intelligence would be more likely to cheat than another guy. I mean, if the guy possessed all 6 qualities, he wouldn't be getting dates, but any one of these should be a red flag.
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Old 07-05-2013, 12:37 PM
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Why? These are pretty obvious things to consider. It makes perfect sense that someone with a low level of empathy, unreasonable expectations, little capacity for emotional intimacy or guilt, or low intelligence would be more likely to cheat than another guy. I mean, if the guy possessed all 6 qualities, he wouldn't be getting dates, but any one of these should be a red flag.

No problem getting dates.

Plenty of women with the same "qualities."
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Old 07-05-2013, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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LOL Isn't that funny that ugly ass Arnold Schwarzenegger's picture has to be on almost every online article about cheating?! Oh my God, he is so damn ugly, inside and out.

Anyway, I read that article again, it looks like the first thing to consider is, "Does he have a bunch of angry exes?"

I always thought a man or a woman's sexual history says a lot about that person. Fundamentally, I don't believe a person can change. For example, if a person has cheated on every single one of his girlfriends, he is simply not a dating material for a woman who is looking for monogamous relationship. I don't believe in miracle.

However, people nowadays seem to believe past is past, a person's sexual or dating history should not be discussed with his or her new partner. I found the whole idea ridiculous. To me, past will set the tone for future. I have dumped a guy before because he admitted to me that he has cheated on many of his ex girlfriends, he promised he would not cheat on me because "You are so sweet and special." I am so glad that we are just friends. He is cheating on his current girlfriend with somebody else. He is not a bad person, but he is not suitable for a committed monogamous relationship. I appreciate his honesty though.
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Old 07-05-2013, 02:29 PM
 
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Why? These are pretty obvious things to consider. It makes perfect sense that someone with a low level of empathy, unreasonable expectations, little capacity for emotional intimacy or guilt, or low intelligence would be more likely to cheat than another guy. I mean, if the guy possessed all 6 qualities, he wouldn't be getting dates, but any one of these should be a red flag.
I'm just saying this list is very loose and you could add to it to no end. I would add the biggest one being the 'POTUS'. Don't marry someone who will become the Pres. "Commander in Cheater" should be the official title.
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