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Old 08-04-2013, 04:35 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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But you are far more desperate than a man is of your age bracket. Well you can wait until fair is fair, but being never married and in you're 40s should tell you that you need to step up your game or lower your standards. Its the same as ATL39... the competition for want you want is fierce.... what are you going to do to elevate yourself so that a prized man will want you?
Have you read her requirements in a man she wants.

Not to be harsh, but she is NEVER repeat NEVER gonna get her exact requirements met. I've said she needs to drop a couple otherwise it's stock up on cat foodville..........

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Old 08-04-2013, 04:38 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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It's made cheating so much easier for people
Not just that - digital has created disposibility.
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Old 08-04-2013, 04:40 PM
 
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Wow, imagine my surprise to find this is yet another "dating isn't fair to men because women can ...(fill in the blank)."

nothing more to see here, please put your trash in the receptacle on your way out and whomever exits last, please turn out the lights........
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:02 PM
 
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Look in Texas. That is the only answer aside from getting my company to let me work remotely and move. I will not lower my standards to date obese women.
So elevating yourself as a candidate where you are is out? Seems rather lazy, no?
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:03 PM
 
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Have you read her requirements in a man she wants.

Not to be harsh, but she is NEVER repeat NEVER gonna get her exact requirements met. I've said she needs to drop a couple otherwise it's stock up on cat foodville..........
All the more reason why she should describe what she has to offer a man, instead of simply stating her job and education.
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:14 PM
 
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Have you read her requirements in a man she wants.

Not to be harsh, but she is NEVER repeat NEVER gonna get her exact requirements met. I've said she needs to drop a couple otherwise it's stock up on cat foodville..........
I HAVE had my EXACT same requirements met, which are never married, childless and religious. There ARE men like this out there including my boyfriend.
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:16 PM
 
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But you are far more desperate than a man is of your age bracket. Well you can wait until fair is fair, but being never married and in you're 40s should tell you that you need to step up your game or lower your standards. Its the same as ATL39... the competition for want you want is fierce.... what are you going to do to elevate yourself so that a prized man will want you?
How would you know that I am more "desperate" than a man my age being I know what I want. Desperate? not hardly. No way would I lower my standards just so I can date a loser man I would never consider.
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:18 PM
 
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All the more reason why she should describe what she has to offer a man, instead of simply stating her job and education.
I offer the same things that a man would offer such as companionship. I don't have to "offer" anything a man doesn't and nope sorry not desperate. If I don't marry (and I will)then oh well.
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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So elevating yourself as a candidate where you are is out? Seems rather lazy, no?
Not lazy at all, just realistic. And what do you mean by elevate? I'm in good shape and have a good career. I'm into self help, so always elevating. Here, its just a lack of women who meet even my minimal criteria.
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:22 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I HAVE had my EXACT same requirements met, which are never married, childless and religious. There ARE men like this out there including my boyfriend.
This taco man isn't a man... he's got some major issues going on... matter of fact, I'm surprised you are with him.... I'm sorry to be harsh about it, as I don't know the guy personally but everything you talked about him........ you had to give up way way too many other much more important things just to get a childless man......
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