Sexless relationship with no desire to fix it… what’s making me stay? (how to, marry)

[Pena]

Originally Posted by augiedogie

My guess is that you stay because of your own insecurity and his money.

I make more money than him. Thank you for that negative assumption, though augiedogie and TheBigGuy. Awesome.

Originally Posted by augiedogie

Not much interested in sex at all

His pornography collection is the biggest I’ve ever seen. A whole closet full of magazines, books, dvds and a whole folder dedicated to it on our computer. He also keeps photos and videos on his phone (NO I have never snooped. Many many years ago he got drunk and showed me one night)

Originally Posted by JustJulia

Oh good grief. In December the OP portrays him as a rescuer and "pretty much the only person on my side," and now he is a cruel jerk. He's her best friend and she's afraid to lose him, but he belittles her and treats her badly. She doesn't desire him and never did, but he's the one who pushes away her passionate advances.

Originally Posted by JustJulia

One-sided hot mess.

Are you trying to help me, or…? I don’t understand the point of this entry. When did I call him a cruel jerk?

Oh also, he couldn't be more hetero if he tried!

[9052BK-AFO-II-AUTO]

Originally Posted by houstan-dan

Dude quit looking like a desparate fool to a stranger on the internet you know virtually nothing about. It's sickening.

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Desperate fool? She tries to have sex with him and he laughs and walks away?

It's against the TOS what I would do to a fella like that.........

It involves a 11 1/2D Bates Desert Warrior..........

[mir86]

oh dear god. I was in a relationship like this for a year. I would rather jump off a bridge than be tied to that for 10 years.

[9052BK-AFO-II-AUTO]

Originally Posted by mir86

oh dear god. I was in a relationship like this for a year. I would rather jump off a bridge than be tied to that for 10 years.

You said it....10 years. Most SOs or wives would tell their
hubby or BF to beat it......

[mir86]

Originally Posted by 9052BK-AFO-II-AUTO

You said it....10 years. Most SOs or wives would tell their
hubby or BF to beat it......

Yep! As did I! but it took a while to get the courage to do it...but dang..not 10 years!

[9052BK-AFO-II-AUTO]

Originally Posted by mir86

Yep! As did I! but it took a while to get the courage to do it...but dang..not 10 years!

I can fathom why any man would turn down sex from his spouse. Not only that....walk away/out and laugh at her.

Strange feller.........

[Pena]

Originally Posted by mir86

Yep! As did I! but it took a while to get the courage to do it...but dang..not 10 years!

You do know I'm right here, right?

[mir86]

Originally Posted by Pena

You do know I'm right here, right?

yep . you're a better woman than I for putting up with that for so long.

[Pena]

Originally Posted by 9052BK-AFO-II-AUTO

You said it....10 years. Most SOs or wives would tell their
hubby or BF to beat it......

I suppose the difference is that I actually care about the guy. Yes my confidence has decreased since being with him and I blame him sometimes, but I do care for him. He’s been good to my family and me in a lot of other ways, including my mom’s battle with depression.

[Pena]

Originally Posted by mir86

yep . you're a better woman than I for putting up with that for so long.

Ha. Either that or a silly fool.