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Well, I have never known a woman who was like that, unless she was demisexual.
Yes.
I'm not demisexual and I've been like that, lol. I mean there are some guys that I'm attracted to but I don't want to bang them, I just like them. And then there are other guys that I'm attracted to but have sexual feelings for as well. I don't know if its a matter of chemistry--like maybe for guy A) there isn't enough chemistry, but I like him despite it, who knows?
I don't get how people say they are attracted to someone but don't want to have sex. Why not? They must not really be attracted. There's are lie in there somewhere or some serious issues.
I agree, and I can't lie about it. Look down at my " " girls.....see that bulge? I'm lying indeed alright! Lying that I don't want anything from you.
I don't get how people say they are attracted to someone but don't want to have sex. Why not? They must not really be attracted. There's are lie in there somewhere or some serious issues.
Had a chat with an attractive 23 year old women last week that says she wants to wait until marriage. She had sex in the past, but for one reason or another wants to wait till marriage. Pretty sure there are men out there that wouldn't mind waiting. I told her that it will be hard to find them. But no doubt in my mind that they do exist.
I don't get how people say they are attracted to someone but don't want to have sex. Why not? They must not really be attracted. There's are lie in there somewhere or some serious issues.
I've liked men and haven't wanted sex with them. I was attracted to them too. Why does that mean I have serious issues?
Had a chat with an attractive 23 year old women last week that says she wants to wait until marriage. She had sex in the past, but for one reason or another wants to wait till marriage. Pretty sure there are men out there that wouldn't mind waiting. I told her that it will be hard to find them. But no doubt in my mind that they do exist.
Yeah, that broad would be down the road for most guys. You aren't a born again virgin lady....sheesh!
Had a chat with an attractive 23 year old women last week that says she wants to wait until marriage. She had sex in the past, but for one reason or another wants to wait till marriage. Pretty sure there are men out there that wouldn't mind waiting. I told her that it will be hard to find them. But no doubt in my mind that they do exist.
I don't think they exist (considering that she's had sex already) unless he's gay or asexual.
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Originally Posted by Faith2187
I've liked men and haven't wanted sex with them. I was attracted to them too. Why does that mean I have serious issues?
My guess is that you werent all that attracted to them. Maybe just a little. Or maybe you're asexual and don't know it. The last option is that you have psychological traumas but you haven't said you have those.
Anyways, to answer your question yes there are asexual or low T men out there.
I don't think they exist (considering that she's had sex already) unless he's gay or asexual.
My guess is that you werent all that attracted to them. Maybe just a little. Or maybe you're asexual and don't know it. The last option is that you have psychological traumas but you haven't said you have those.
Anyways, to answer your question yes there are asexual or low T men out there.
I genuine woman who wants to wait, cool. No time for "games" and BS though from those lying or screwed up.
I am pretty sure I speak for all heterosexual men that there is no romantic feeling without sexual feeling. If the man does not want to have sex with you, it means he wants to be just friends.
Had a chat with an attractive 23 year old women last week that says she wants to wait until marriage. She had sex in the past, but for one reason or another wants to wait till marriage. Pretty sure there are men out there that wouldn't mind waiting. I told her that it will be hard to find them. But no doubt in my mind that they do exist.
There's a difference between wanting to wait for marriage and having no sexual feelings. You can have sexual feelings and still choose to wait - but I can't imagine wanting a relationship with someone with out having sexual feelings toward them.
This is very common among middle aged guy friends I know. They want a partner for friendship and romance, but don't care a lot about sex.
It doesn't bode well for women of the same age, with our high sex drives :/.
Middle aged guys are less picky when it comes to befriending females just because they are more matured and see past the exterior. They still want to have sex with women they have genuine romantic interest in.
If you feel a man treats you in a romantic way but does not care much for sex, it means he sees you as a way to fulfill his need to be nice to a woman and be appreciated but not as a girl friend.
I do it myself. When I am single sometimes I am extra nice and sweet to my lady friends even though I have absolutely no desire to date them.
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