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Old 12-03-2007, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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What we need in this society are more sex toys for men. Or, god willing, lessons
LOL, they do have sex toys for men. Go check out a sex toy store!! oh my, things you never would even think of!!!

As far as lessons, I think two people who really want to please each other can teach other. Someone may be good in bed with one person who they click with, but a horrible "romp" with someone they have no chemistry with.


Sorry, romp was all that I could think of at the moment.
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Old 12-03-2007, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Tampa
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LOL, they do have sex toys for men. Go check out a sex toy store!! oh my, things you never would even think of!!!

As far as lessons, I think two people who really want to please each other can teach other. Someone may be good in bed with one person who they click with, but a horrible "romp" with someone they have no chemistry with.


Sorry, romp was all that I could think of at the moment.
i think sybian makes a toy for guys

and there is always the real doll
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Old 12-03-2007, 10:20 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Lindsey,

There's a lot more than "some," thanks to many women being influenced by Paris Hilton, Beyonce, etc. I agree with your points about our society -- Social conditioning has played a major role in how we interact with the opposite gender, which is unfortunate.

Also, there's nothing wrong with enjoying sex, but have you looked at the social landscape recently? The sexual behavior of teenage girls even? It's crazy.
I completely agree with what your saying, I was just telling you from my point of view about some of the other types. I was raised in a very different environment where people like Paris Hilton and Brittany Spears were not even known about.

I have a 10 year old daughter, I am VERY concerned about trends today AND the company she keeps.
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Old 12-03-2007, 10:45 PM
 
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I think america wants to keep the idea that girls are sweet or sensitive. But growing up alot of teenage girls are the opposite. I think i will definitely watch if i have a daughter when i have kids. Alot of more girls are having sex at a younger age and doing drugs. Of course alot arent, but some are.
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Old 12-04-2007, 07:22 AM
 
Location: I'm not lost, I'm exploring!
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LOL, they do have sex toys for men. Go check out a sex toy store!! oh my, things you never would even think of!!!
Yesssss, the fake butts and the cans of jelly. We remember!
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Old 12-04-2007, 12:01 PM
 
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Very true. This is the image that young males are subjected to from a very young age through adulthood. Some males are smart enough to know otherwise, while others (like myself) struggle for years to understand the real nature of a majority of women: They are not angels, innocent and motherly as we've been told they were.

Society wants us to believe that because of gender, women are loving, kind, etc. when reality shows just the opposite. Also, it helps to understand that men and women are truly different. Men are simple, while women are quite complex emotionally and psychologically. They're a different beast altogether and not even most women can eloquently explain their behavior -- it's hardwired.

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I think america wants to keep the idea that girls are sweet or sensitive. But growing up alot of teenage girls are the opposite. I think i will definitely watch if i have a daughter when i have kids. Alot of more girls are having sex at a younger age and doing drugs. Of course alot arent, but some are.
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Old 12-04-2007, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Metrowest, MA
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Society wants us to believe that because of gender, women are loving, kind, etc. when reality shows just the opposite. Also, it helps to understand that men and women are truly different. Men are simple, while women are quite complex emotionally and psychologically. They're a different beast altogether and not even most women can eloquently explain their behavior -- it's hardwired.
Society also want you to believe you'll be happy with kids.

For the moment of joy, We have to pay for them for the rest of our life...
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Old 12-04-2007, 12:33 PM
 
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Men are simple, while women are quite complex emotionally and psychologically. They're a different beast altogether and not even most women can eloquently explain their behavior -- it's hardwired.
I think this is a very unfair generalization that doesn't do justice to either sex.
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Old 12-04-2007, 06:55 PM
 
Location: the best coast
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woman have babies too.
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Old 12-08-2007, 07:39 PM
 
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Frankly, I am tired of the adage about sex between men and women. This is the age of equal rights, what women have fought so long and hard for. Let's keep it equal. I am tired of hearing that when men take women out, wine them and dine them and, maybe, and that's a big maybe, at the end of the night they will be rewarded. That's total bull****. Women love sex just as much as men. So, I say: You have it wrong, women! You don't have something we want or need, we have something you need. Women enjoy sex just as much as men. Let's keep it on equal footing. Sex is not a one-sided thing that has been foisted on men for so many years. We might as well have a hooker and eliminate the middle woman, and the hassle, if that's the case.
BigJ
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