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Well 30 is way too young for me but I'll play along and assume I was 10+ years younger and open to dating a 30 year old. My answer is, it depends. If he remained a virgin for religious reasons, probably not. If he is one of those types that's scared to have sex with me, probably not. Any other reason, yes I would date a 30 yo virgin.
As I've said before it is rare to make a love-match with someone where you are BOTH intensely emotionally invested in an equal way. That, to me, has been the rarest of things.
I am pretty lucky because I gave my virginity to someone who feels as strongly about me as I do about her. A similarity between you and I: we both are wildly different in age from our SO's. You're about the same age as her, while I'm 26.
With that said, one difference between me and your boyfriend is that I didn't find it difficult to meet people who were interested in dating me. Every unsuccessful match recently was broken off by me (I place fairly high expectations on people I date).
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Yeah, after hearing Sonic' story on how she met her sig other. I'd thought he'd have 2 strikes against him. One , the age diff. between her and him, and 2, the fact he was a 50-something virgin. You'd think at that age, he'd be the kind of guy that couldn't get laid in a woman's prison with a fistful of pardons. But then the sweetie Sonic Spork enters his life.
It's a great underdog story if you think about it.
If only I could meet someone like Sonic. Have a closet full of board games at the ready lol
I don't believe he was a virgin at all. I don't believe she said he was either. She has said he was fairly inexperienced.
This pretty much proves Hollywood ugly guys can get women however it doesn't disprove that many regular ugly guys can't. Comparing Hollywood men to regular men is like comparing apples to oranges.
Guy, DeVito wasn't a Hollywood guy when he met Rhea Perlman. He was acting on Broadway. Yes, some high profile names are starring in these plays, but there's also regular actors, who never gain any sort of prominence or fame, who are performing in these Broadway plays. DeVito had one movie/acting credit to his name by the time he met Rhea Perlman and I doubt anyone even heard of it at that point. You know what his character's name was in that movie? ''Thug''. That tells me he wasn't even showcased much in it. Have you ever heard of Dreams Of Glass before? I sure didn't before today. I've actually learned more about DeVito today than I ever knew.
And I can still prove to you that ugly non-Hollywood men can get women, but here's what you're gonna need to do. Go out somewhere tonight, that's filled with people. Go to the mall! It's the weekend before Christmas, so it will be packed. Go this weekend, there'll be plenty of people there. Look at all the couples, you'll see ugly guys with women and not all of the women are gonna be ugly. Now with your way of thinking, you're either gonna come up with some other spin on this or you're gonna say something like ''Oh, well, they probably have a lot of money'' or ''Oh, he's probably a sugar daddy'' or ''Well, he was probably good looking when they got together'' or ''Yeah, it's probably her brother or cousin''.
Guy, DeVito wasn't a Hollywood guy when he met Rhea Perlman. He was acting on Broadway. Yes, some high profile names are starring in these plays, but there's also regular actors, who never gain any sort of prominence or fame, who are performing in these Broadway plays. DeVito had one movie/acting credit to his name by the time he met Rhea Perlman and I doubt anyone even heard of it at that point. You know what his character's name was in that movie? ''Thug''. That tells me he wasn't even showcased much in it. Have you ever heard of Dreams Of Glass before? I sure didn't before today. I've actually learned more about DeVito today than I ever knew.
And I can still prove to you that ugly non-Hollywood men can get women, but here's what you're gonna need to do. Go out somewhere tonight, that's filled with people. Go to the mall! It's the weekend before Christmas, so it will be packed. Go this weekend, there'll be plenty of people there. Look at all the couples, you'll see ugly guys with women and not all of the women are gonna be ugly. Now with your way of thinking, you're either gonna come up with some other spin on this or you're gonna say something like ''Oh, well, they probably have a lot of money'' or ''Oh, he's probably a sugar daddy'' or ''Well, he was probably good looking when they got together'' or ''Yeah, it's probably her brother or cousin''.
When I go out I mind my own business besides just because someone else can doesn't mean all can and that's a fact. Life doesn't work that way.
When I go out I mind my own business besides just because someone else can doesn't mean all can and that's a fact. Life doesn't work that way.
You’re right. Because some insist on forcing a narrative and telling themselves a certain story and they stick to that story. And they let it limit themselves. Now that’s a fact.
This pretty much proves Hollywood ugly guys can get women however it doesn't disprove that many regular ugly guys can't. Comparing Hollywood men to regular men is like comparing apples to oranges.
I know a bunch of toothless, jobless methheads who all have women to date (sometimes several at once).
When I go out I mind my own business besides just because someone else can doesn't mean all can and that's a fact. Life doesn't work that way.
For what it's worth I agree with you, I don't know what else we could say to prove our point. Regardless we're going to be accused of making excuses.
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