Ladies, would you date a 30 year old virgin? (young, daughter, alcohol)

[tamajane]

Originally Posted by Auraliea

Sigh....

I wish the obsession with virginity would die already.

It's neither good nor bad.

It simply is or is not. There is no need to shame someone for it or praise it.

Seriously....let it go.

I'm not sure there is even an agreed on definition of it.

[49ersfan27]

I've had women judge me for being a nurse and guess what? They're not the women I want to be involved with.

I was a virgin until I was 24, and didn't care if I was judged for it. Any person who looks down on you for that isn't the person for you. Find people who like you, not belittle you.

[Runninglikethieves]

Originally Posted by timberline742

Good heavens, why would anyone want that?

I know. I was thinking the same thing. I never understood what the fascination was in having sex with virgins. I’ve been with one and I was actually terrified of having sex with her for a while before we did, as I thought she was going to bleed and I had a hang up about that. It wasn’t so bad, though.

[ThisTown123]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

I've had women judge me for being a nurse and guess what? They're not the women I want to be involved with.

I was a virgin until I was 24, and didn't care if I was judged for it. Any person who looks down on you for that isn't the person for you. Find people who like you, not belittle you.

I mean, some people are negating the obvious bonus here. 2 words, "disease free".

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by ThisTown123

I mean, some people are negating the obvious bonus here. 2 words, "disease free".

No, that isn't obvious, because it isn't true. People can and do get STIs as virgins.


Secondly, pretty simple and easy to be informed and know with recent test results, which everyone should be doing as a matter of course anyway.

[ThisTown123]

Originally Posted by timberline742

No, that isn't obvious, because it isn't true. People can and do get STIs as virgins.


Secondly, pretty simple and easy to be informed and know with recent test results, which everyone should be doing as a matter of course anyway.

Okay, we'll split hairs then. They are the safest bet of not having STIs compared to the rest of the sexually active population.

[Ulysses61]

Originally Posted by behindthescreen

I could only wish to find an attractive 30 year old virgin female. I dont think they exist.

What a seriously creepy thing to say. Coveting virgins (especially 30 year old ones) is a bit repulsive.

[buildings_and_bridges]

I confess that I haven't read the entire thread, just skimmed. But if I were single, then the answer would be yes. No reason that that would be a dealbreaker.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by ThisTown123

Okay, we'll split hairs then. They are the safest bet of not having STIs compared to the rest of the sexually active population.

Which is a moot point if the people are responsible and get tested. Total non issue.

[somebodynew]

For ME, no I would not. It has nothing to do with judgment or considering something "wrong" with the person. But lack of sexual experience would just not be something I would be interested in at my age.