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View Poll Results: Would you date a 30 year old virgin?
Yes 86 58.50%
No 61 41.50%
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Old 11-08-2017, 06:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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What difference does it make if I bring it up when I meet them or before we take our clothes off? It's almost like I have to use the fear of a woman being shallow for her to stay or sleep with me.
It makes a lot of difference. Haven't you been reading the posts?

Every experience is different, just like every person is different. Your vagueness leads me to believe you haven't actually gotten to "that point" often, if at all.
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Old 11-08-2017, 06:18 PM
 
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It makes a lot of difference. Haven't you been reading the posts?

Every experience is different, just like every person is different. Your vagueness leads me to believe you haven't actually gotten to "that point" often, if at all.
If that's the case then I don't think the problem is me.
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Old 11-08-2017, 06:56 PM
 
Location: NY
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By the nature of these posts, I honestly think you are making it too big of a deal... which may ultimately be hurting you. Your virginity is what it is. Do not let it consume you and your efforts in trying to connect, date, and forge relationships with women. The right woman for you is not going to walk away because of your experience.
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Old 11-08-2017, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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If that's the case then I don't think the problem is me.
If you won't be specific and address questions that come up that very well could help you, then is there even a problem, or are you just hanging out here, advancing the conversation but not contributing anything?
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Old 11-08-2017, 07:15 PM
 
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If you won't be specific and address questions that come up that very well could help you, then is there even a problem, or are you just hanging out here, advancing the conversation but not contributing anything?
I answered all the questions.
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Old 11-08-2017, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I answered all the questions.
Many people here have shared very personal stories of their experiences in order to help you and others. You have not answered the question about WHEN in your interaction with different women has the subject of your virginity come up.

It DOES make a difference.
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Old 11-08-2017, 07:48 PM
 
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Many people here have shared very personal stories of their experiences in order to help you and others. You have not answered the question about WHEN in your interaction with different women has the subject of your virginity come up.

It DOES make a difference.
I believe I said that I bring it up in the beginning because of waiting and it not making a difference.
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Old 11-08-2017, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I believe I said that I bring it up in the beginning because of waiting and it not making a difference.
Have you ever thought about just not mentioning it ... at all?
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Old 11-08-2017, 08:00 PM
 
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Have you ever thought about just not mentioning it ... at all?
No, I like to give people a choice.
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Old 11-08-2017, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No, I like to give people a choice.
A choice of ... what?
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