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Sorry to burst your bubble but people can and will judge you on anything and everything. Ya don't like it, don't leave your house.
This no judging crap is just that, crap. People judge you every single second. Just the way the world works. The brain takes in and processes data subconsciously without trying.
That's fine judge Mel for being a virgin weirdo in my thirties and i will judge others as a carousel rider no skin off my back.
That's fine judge Mel for being a virgin weirdo in my thirties and i will judge others as a carousel rider no skin off my back.
Ya know what. I saw an incredibly rude post you made toward one member here in your thread in psychology and ya know what I hope you never get laid, ever!!!!. Ya mean spirited.... god I wish I could post what I really think right now. That man just lost his wife was reaching out to you to help you cope with your situation and it made me sick what you said.
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Ya know what. I saw an incredibly rude post you made toward one member here in your thread in psychology and ya know what I hope you never get laid, ever!!!!. Ya mean spirited.... god I wish I could post what I really think right now. That man just lost his wife was reaching out to you to help you cope with your situation and made me sick what you said.
Okay, post how you feel I won't tell the mods on you.
i don't think a man should talk about his sexual past. It's his business, and as this thread shows, some women will judge him for it. I smell irony
I never saw this thread before I am pretty shocked how many people voted no. Wow that really shows to me how shallow the U.S. culture has become. I lose a little more respect for it every year. We are totally devolving, agree on the irony.
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If you're a 30 year old virgin, there's no need to go and blurt out ''Yeah, I'm a virgin'' on the first date, or early in the dating phase. There's no need to divulge this information. It really shouldn't be at all relevant. If you're randomly bringing up the fact that you're a virgin, it already shows that you're insecure about it, right off the bat. Most people at that age, are not going to be asking you about your virginity status. They're likely going to assume that you're not a virgin. I wouldn't any blame any woman (or man) for rejecting someone who feels the need to blurt out on the first date or before you even get that far, ''I'm a virgin!''. I don't think it's necessarily weird to be a 30 year old virgin, but it's very weird to have to advertise it like that. Which I feel is something that a lot of 30 year old virgins (not by choice), might have been doing for the last 5-10 years, and turning their dates off and putting themselves behind the eight ball immediately.
Now if someone were to say early on, ''Look, I'm a virgin, I'm saving myself for marriage. If that's not something you're open to, I'm fine with that! No hard feelings!''. That's a noble thing to do, rather than string someone along for weeks, only to then admit it. I can respect that. But if you'd like to lose your virginity and you're not waiting for religious or personal ethics reasons, there's no need to even bring it up, until way later on. It's really none of anybody's business, and I can't blame anyone for rolling their eyes, when their date randomly brings up the fact that they're a virgin.
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That's fine judge Mel for being a virgin weirdo in my thirties and i will judge others as a carousel rider no skin off my back.
From my perspective, It sounds more like to me, that you judge the ''Carousel riders'' and the ''Town bicycles'' because you're salty and bitter that you can't even get a date. Just the feeling that I'm getting here.
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From my perspective, It sounds more like to me, that you judge the ''Carousel riders'' and the ''Town bicycles'' because you're salty and bitter that you can't even get a date. Just the feeling that I'm getting here.
That guy is done son, no fiing around. Gone baby gone!
From my perspective, It sounds more like to me, that you judge the ''Carousel riders'' and the ''Town bicycles'' because you're salty and bitter that you can't even get a date. Just the feeling that I'm getting here.
If I can be judged I can also do the judging, most women don't want a older male virgin no matter if I announce it or not, why would I want an experienced woman if that's how they feel about me?
If I can be judged I can also do the judging, most women don't want a older male virgin no matter if I announce it or not, why would I want an experienced woman if that's how they feel about me?
Paranoid too. A number of things you have stated in a variety of threads would point to a certain disorder on your part, that's all I'll say about that for now.
Your failure with women is no mystery to anyone who has been reading the things you've posted.
Yes I would - but, if they are smart, they would want to date someone who is a virgin too.
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