Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
2,365 posts, read 2,149,907 times
Reputation: 3814
Quote:
Originally Posted by silverwing
But he can?
He can rent a U-Haul to move, he can buy another car when he gets back.
If anger and frustration are overwhelming your ability to make a rational decision, if you have such sympathetic feelings that make you think things might be OK if he changed, then tell him it's counseling or buh-bye. And he can figure out how to get his own ass back on track. And quit having sex. If he is as much a lout as you describe, he might sabotage your BC. And if the sex isn't good for you anyway, that's enough of a reason to kick him to the couch until he makes a decision to change or get out. Your anger is probably what kills the sex.
I would let him have the car. She's with her family, and he has no one there. He can at least sleep in it, while he desides what he's going to do. If he leaves for good, its really a small price to pay to be done with him, imho. If not, the car will be back in the driveway soon enough.
I am fun.
I can spend an entire day chillin at the lake or I could go down town and do shots or stay in bed and play video games.
I like to do everything but I work and clean. Luckily my company almost reminds of wolf of Wall Street a little. It's crazy, stone cold sellas who love to go out. We sing and dance at work to whatever comes on over Sirius, we work in retail on commission. We party, have fun, joke around and make money.
I would let him have the car. She's with her family, and he has no one there. He can at least sleep in it, while he desides what he's going to do. If he leaves for good, its really a small price to pay to be done with him, imho. If not, the car will be back in the driveway soon enough.
It's MY car!
He didn't have one when I met him!
It's my first car.
I work 30 minutes from home and my grandmother and great grand mother live on the other side of town. She couldn't take me to work and and pick me up and she needs her car.
She also bought my car no way in hell would that happen. It's a new car too 2010, not letting that go!
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
2,365 posts, read 2,149,907 times
Reputation: 3814
Quote:
Originally Posted by txtqueen
It's MY car!
He didn't have one when I met him!
It's my first car.
I work 30 minutes from home and my grandmother and great grand mother live on the other side of town. She couldn't take me to work and and pick me up and she needs her car.
She also bought my car no way in hell would that happen. It's a new car too 2010, not letting that go!
So, wait...is it truely your car, or grandma's car? Meh, keep it then, but realize he has no where to go. Also, realize you just gave a clue that he might have a point about you afterall...ijs. Such value on an inanimate object.
Txt, you know who and what he is. Take it as the gospel truth. All your complaining isn't going to change him, so stop demanding he do so. So, make a decision for yourself... tolerate it, or get rid of it. Those are your only two options. And you know what the right one is.
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
2,365 posts, read 2,149,907 times
Reputation: 3814
Quote:
Originally Posted by steelstress
Yeah, the inanimate object that gets her to work, gets her to grandma's house, gets her to the grocery store and other such nonsense.
So? That means its all about her, right?
Im sure someone in the family would loan her a car to continue to take care of grandma, while she works and has normal life.
Is it just me, or are some puzzle pieces not truely fitting together here?
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Yeah, the inanimate object that gets her to work, gets her to grandma's house, gets her to the grocery store and other such nonsense.
