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Both my sisters are just as socially inept as I am. (Is that stuff genetic or are my folks to blame? Haha) They had much better luck with their love life in their teens and early twenties than I did. They were painfully shy and dudes hit on them all the time, if their nerves allowed it they could get any average guy they wanted.
I was an insecure mess in my younger years. Women didn't even acknowledge my existence unless I already knew them through friends. I was good at some things so that helped me, but I could never close the deal. I think being beanpole (6' 140ish lbs) didn't help much. Lol
We are our own worst enemies in the end.
The difference between my sisters and I.. They found their confidence through their boyfriends and failed relationships. I found mine through my hobbies and the gym. My sisters all went through the bitter, hard knocks thing. I was too afraid to act on my feelings and just relentlessly worked on myself until I was happy with the mirror. Now I'm dating and it's starting to feel normal.
A woman with no social life because a lot of women are attracted to men with social proof
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