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Old 09-21-2014, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Let me know how "true" you think this is of men versus women...

Men say they like variety....it's been my experience (fairly limited) that they like to have sex pretty much the same every time, same foreplay, same positions, etc. I like a little variety - mix it up! I get bored if it's always done "by rote". To me, guys find out "what works" and that's the way it is every time.

So, do men want a variety of women but then the sex is the same with each of them, where women are more likely to settle down with one man and they'd like a variety of kinds of sex with that one guy?
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Old 09-21-2014, 05:46 PM
 
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So tell your partner what you would like to try and don't blame them that you do not speak up.
Men are not mind readers and a lot of them are afraid to suggest something new because they fear the reaction of their partner.
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Old 09-21-2014, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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A healthy male libido loves variety, and depending on the woman, the sex also may vary.
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Old 09-21-2014, 05:54 PM
 
Location: D.C.
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Nope, I like a variety of positions and I like mixing it up with foreplay also. I can't imagine doing the same things every time, really boring.
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:01 PM
 
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Most men like variety in the bedroom and like to experiment. Many are just afraid to bring it up to their partner because they don't want the woman to get upset, think he's a pervert, etc.
If you are bored, bring it up to the guy you're with and tell him what you want to try. Trust me, he won't mind at all, haha!
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:14 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I like to switch things up, but guess what? You've got desires? How about a voice? Put'em together, and you'll be swinging from that sex chair in no time.
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:17 PM
 
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Let me know how "true" you think this is of men versus women...

Men say they like variety....it's been my experience (fairly limited) that they like to have sex pretty much the same every time, same foreplay, same positions, etc. I like a little variety - mix it up! I get bored if it's always done "by rote". To me, guys find out "what works" and that's the way it is every time.

So, do men want a variety of women but then the sex is the same with each of them, where women are more likely to settle down with one man and they'd like a variety of kinds of sex with that one guy?
Depends on the chemistry of two people, but some guys are a bit.. more sensual.
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:21 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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No, that hasn't been my experience.
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:22 PM
 
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Let me know how "true" you think this is of men versus women...

Men say they like variety....it's been my experience (fairly limited) that they like to have sex pretty much the same every time, same foreplay, same positions, etc. I like a little variety - mix it up! I get bored if it's always done "by rote". To me, guys find out "what works" and that's the way it is every time.

So, do men want a variety of women but then the sex is the same with each of them, where women are more likely to settle down with one man and they'd like a variety of kinds of sex with that one guy?
yeah... nah.
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:25 PM
 
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Let me know how "true" you think this is of men versus women...

Men say they like variety....it's been my experience (fairly limited) that they like to have sex pretty much the same every time, same foreplay, same positions, etc. I like a little variety - mix it up! I get bored if it's always done "by rote". To me, guys find out "what works" and that's the way it is every time.

So, do men want a variety of women but then the sex is the same with each of them, where women are more likely to settle down with one man and they'd like a variety of kinds of sex with that one guy?
I follow the ladies' lead, and they're generally pretty imaginative so it's never been an issue.
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