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Well, thats YOUR problem then. The BEST sex I have ever had is with women who are able to openly communicate what they want, how they want it, when they want it. Your inability to communicate effectively will always ruin it for you no matter what guy you are with.
Women who are great communicators when it comes to sex will almost NEVER have the complaints and issues that you have.
Right...well, here's a thought. When you have a job, you learn the job and the variations on it after a period of time. Do you ask your boss every day how to do that job? Do you become experienced enough after a time that you can anticipate possible issues and even get creative and IMPROVE the process? Hmmmmmm....interesting. Guys who can do well at work and yet have trouble learning in bed and have to be told over and over how to do something?
Oh no, not all men...but seems that some men can make a lot of excuses that "she expects me to read her mind" when you kinda have to read your boss's mind (or at least work "on your own") - after you've been told once or twice how to do the job!
Let me know how "true" you think this is of men versus women...
Men say they like variety....it's been my experience (fairly limited) that they like to have sex pretty much the same every time, same foreplay, same positions, etc. I like a little variety - mix it up! I get bored if it's always done "by rote". To me, guys find out "what works" and that's the way it is every time.
So, do men want a variety of women but then the sex is the same with each of them, where women are more likely to settle down with one man and they'd like a variety of kinds of sex with that one guy?
Ha! This is an interesting subject. I guess you are right. As a man, I always did like variety insofar as different ladies, but yeah the actual sex was probably similar. Although I can recall a woman or 2 that did things a little differently and I went with it and enjoyed it.
This is a gross generalization, although it may apply to some men and maybe it's your experience.
I wonder why you are so negative and so quick to blame your troubles on men.
We generally we get what we seek, and often delude ourselves about what we really seek.
That's all she was asking, is opinions as to whether it was true or not. She wasn't blaming anything on anyone, just asking for opinions. You may need to re-read the OP.
Women: if you get bored with your man's moves, tell him and offer suggestions. He's going to get his, whether you do or not, so it's best to speak up.
Sometimes it's all about physical compatibility. An "average" man may be able to try certain positions and techniques with a BBW that he can't use on a petite woman and vice-versa. When you've been with someone for awhile, it's easier to figure out what works, though you should always keep trying.
Let me know how "true" you think this is of men versus women...
Men say they like variety....it's been my experience (fairly limited) that they like to have sex pretty much the same every time, same foreplay, same positions, etc. I like a little variety - mix it up! I get bored if it's always done "by rote". To me, guys find out "what works" and that's the way it is every time.
So, do men want a variety of women but then the sex is the same with each of them, where women are more likely to settle down with one man and they'd like a variety of kinds of sex with that one guy?
It's the pursuit of the woman that is more enticing and more interesting. Finding out about the little nuisances of what they like, what they don't like, etc.
I also think that guys who have many sexual partners, also learn little unique things from each partner. In short, building a little 'bag of tricks', some that get played out again, etc.
I don't think it's possible that a guy can do exactly the same thing with each and every partner. Each sexual encounter means each person brings their own interests to it.
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