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Old 01-23-2015, 01:28 PM
 
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i was just reminded of that thread where the guy couldnt believe "how soft she was" lmao

anyways oheve is right, never make an assumption when a woman turns you down for sex

back in the day i used to get some weight excuses when a woman needed to delay/postpone some pending sex

It used to annoy the hell out me too

ive had women that was feelng me and on certain days i got the cold shoulder, turns out i caught em at the wrng time when they had gas or needed to make a bowel movement, or somethng along those lines
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Old 01-23-2015, 01:40 PM
 
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Hey, have you ever seen Tattoo Nightmares? Maybe she has an ex-boyfriend's name on the inside of her thigh, like, "Property of Jonathan" or "George wuz here" with an arrow pointing to her lady parts or something.

The possibilities for dreading the first time with someone are endless!
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Old 01-23-2015, 01:47 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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She just responded that she's interested in coming over. Hopefully she won't cancel this time.
Nice! Are you making dinner for her?
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Old 01-23-2015, 01:48 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I'm just going to throw this out there - as someone who has body image issues - I would never send sexy pics to someone I hadn't had sex with yet.
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Old 01-23-2015, 01:52 PM
 
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Lets get Denny back on track here.
Ill start , If your lucky she's just old fashioned , and wants to make sure you want more than a booty call before you two get carried away.
I say just be yourself , have fun and hope the old saying "good things come to those who wait " is true this time.
so what I'm trying to say is don't over think it .....
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Old 01-23-2015, 03:33 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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You're right. I don't know what it's about exactly. I talked to her this morning. She says she's feeling better, but she didn't say anything about rescheduling our date. So I waited til later and left her a message asking if she'd like to setup another time. She just responded that she's interested in coming over. Hopefully she won't cancel this time.
Is this tonight?

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Old 01-23-2015, 04:36 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Suppose you're dating someone and things have progressed to the point where you both want to have sex, but you suspect the other person is afraid because they're self conscious about their weight. What can you say or do that might help the situation? Obviously, you don't want to pressure the person nor do you want to say anything that would make them even more self-conscious about their body. Beyond just waiting, what can you do? To the women here, how often have you delayed sex with a guy because you were afraid of how he would react to your body? And if so, what helped the most as far as getting past your fears?
Perhaps she is a virgin...
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Old 01-23-2015, 09:18 PM
 
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Is this the woman you weren't initially attracted to and told her that? That's gotta be a kick in the gut, I can see why she has issues.
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Old 01-24-2015, 08:12 AM
 
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Nice! Are you making dinner for her?
Yes. I made dinner. She enjoyed it. Things progressed and whatever reservations she may have had went away.

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Is this the woman you weren't initially attracted to and told her that? That's gotta be a kick in the gut, I can see why she has issues.
I wasn't initially attracted to her, but I never told that. She just inferred that since I didn't reciprocate her initial interest.
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Old 01-24-2015, 09:25 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Well everything sounds good! Problem solved! Enjoy!
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