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i think i also mentioned earlier in this thread that i am not deliberately keeping myself in this situation, but it's difficult finding work but i am searching and applying for jobs frequently, and even getting interviews, but I'm just unfortunate at the moment because the gods aren't smiling down on me.
i am certainly not intending to stay broke and with jobless; that is not my plan. i have just been ridiculed by others who think they're better than me, telling me that women like certain things that i don't have, so when i am able to rub people's noses in it, it's great!
like i said these women and i are in touch, friendly and I'm certainly not using them. these women know that i am not looking for anything serious.
You sure aren't proving those people right, attracting all these easy women who only seem to care about sex. They don't care about you and what you can offer them. Sounds like the type of women who will do anyone or anything with a pulse. That isn't anything special.
Ha! I heard the funniest thing from a woman i was texting, here was the text convo:
her: "you're weird"
me: "that's not nice"
her: "no, i mean weird cos i can't read you properly, you're like a good bad boy hehe xx"
me: "what?"
her: "you act like a bad boy, but you are not one. does that makes sense?"
me: "no lol"
her: "never mind"
her: "you are a really cool guy and i can open up to you, which i have never been able to do with other guys before because they just cared about getting in my pants"
me: "but i do want to get in your pants and you know that lol"
her: "haha! yes, but you're like a friend as well which is why i say you're weird lol :P"
The conversation went like that and did continue, but that's the main gist of it. i don't consider myself a "bad boy" or a "player" anyway, i just like getting to know people and i am genuinely interested in women i meet, but i also make sure I'm honest about my intent that is why i told her that i did want to get in her pants because i was honest with her about my intent to do so before the above text exchange. i just thought "good bad boy" was funny as i have never heard of that before haha.
Ha! I heard the funniest thing from a woman i was texting, here was the text convo:
her: "you're weird"
me: "that's not nice"
her: "no, i mean weird cos i can't read you properly, you're like a good bad boy hehe xx"
me: "what?"
her: "you act like a bad boy, but you are not one. does that makes sense?"
me: "no lol"
her: "never mind"
her: "you are a really cool guy and i can open up to you, which i have never been able to do with other guys before because they just cared about getting in my pants"
me: "but i do want to get in your pants and you know that lol"
her: "haha! yes, but you're like a friend as well which is why i say you're weird lol :P"
The conversation went like that and did continue, but that's the main gist of it. i don't consider myself a "bad boy" or a "player" anyway, i just like getting to know people and i am genuinely interested in women i meet, but i also make sure I'm honest about my intent that is why i told her that i did want to get in her pants because i was honest with her about my intent to do so before the above text exchange. i just thought "good bad boy" was funny as i have never heard of that before haha.
Ha! I heard the funniest thing from a woman i was texting, here was the text convo:
her: "you're weird"
me: "that's not nice"
her: "no, i mean weird cos i can't read you properly, you're like a good bad boy hehe xx"
me: "what?"
her: "you act like a bad boy, but you are not one. does that makes sense?"
me: "no lol"
her: "never mind"
her: "you are a really cool guy and i can open up to you, which i have never been able to do with other guys before because they just cared about getting in my pants"
me: "but i do want to get in your pants and you know that lol"
her: "haha! yes, but you're like a friend as well which is why i say you're weird lol :P"
The conversation went like that and did continue, but that's the main gist of it. i don't consider myself a "bad boy" or a "player" anyway, i just like getting to know people and i am genuinely interested in women i meet, but i also make sure I'm honest about my intent that is why i told her that i did want to get in her pants because i was honest with her about my intent to do so before the above text exchange. i just thought "good bad boy" was funny as i have never heard of that before haha.
Every girl in any species when at "that time" would be feeling randy. Most use logic and weed out mates that are no gooders yet some either due to being 12 in physical age or mental age in that ballpark exhibit these behaviors.
That is why you have some people who can never be at the same level of evolution- they are content getting laid and being waste at the same time
I remember I had a friend who by any standards was absolutely gorgeous, incredibly intelligent, and so much fun (and successful). She was always seen with really impressive men who had everything going for them (looks, money, status etc). She briefly dated this guy who she told us didn't have a car, didn't have his own place, and had a low-paying job that required no skills. We were really confused why she would date someone like that...and then I met the guy and I understood. He was very attractive, charming, and actually pretty smart. Oh and she told us the sex was amazing.
Relationships are so much more complicated than what we realize sometimes.
I remember I had a friend who by any standards was absolutely gorgeous, incredibly intelligent, and so much fun (and successful). She was always seen with really impressive men who had everything going for them (looks, money, status etc). She briefly dated this guy who she told us didn't have a car, didn't have his own place, and had a low-paying job that required no skills. We were really confused why she would date someone like that...and then I met the guy and I understood. He was very attractive, charming, and actually pretty smart. Oh and she told us the sex was amazing.
Relationships are so much more complicated than what we realize sometimes.
i have no idea why i have the success i do considering i am not really good looking (although i have been told i am good looking, but i don't personally think i'm anything special ) i suppose i have learnt to become a decent conversationalist (again, not amazing, but just decent) and i show interest in these women and i am not a deceitful person, so i do not lie to get women into bed.
i guess you can still consider it a large numbers game and because i speak to so many women it's easier to get a larger portion of numbers. i am certainly not going to stay clear of dating just because i don't know certain things or my situation is not ideal. i just have a belief that i am a great guy and any woman would be fortunate to have me in their life, whether as a friend or casual encounter. that isn't me being an egotist, it's just believing in my personal qualities and feeling that the women i meet will gain something from me.
i also aim to become a professional actor, so when i tell women this they're intrigued, but i am not an established actor and i haven't had any professional work yet, but it still interests people, especially the women i meet.
however, like i said, i don't think my looks have much to do with it as i don't have amazing good looks, just decent.
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, but it isn't nice to call people losers lmao
) i suppose i have learnt to become a decent conversationalist (again, not amazing, but just decent) and i show interest in these women and i am not a deceitful person, so i do not lie to get women into bed. 