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OP, you sound like a middle-aged man, not a 25-year-old. Her drive is normal. Yours isn't. It's not a good match. And you don't like the way she dresses? What about her DO you like? Why are you with her?
You're clearly not a man.
It's no secret (or at least I thought) that women can go on for much longer than men, even after orgasm. I'm only a few years older than OP, and I would find it difficult at times to pick right back up only 20 minutes after finishing. A few times throughout a day is one thing. But back to back sessions can be extremely draining for men and it can be difficult to keep the arousal up.
That's why I suggested [bleep] to OP.
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Doesn't mean the OP is doing anything wrong in the bedroom so much as it might mean that she's not gotten very good at expressing her precise needs during sex.
This is a good point and makes sense because she's pretty young. OP should try communicating more with her to find out if there are other things that she might like and that can help her reach climax.
Dude, don't you know about giving her a couple of Os before you actually do the deed so that you only have to go once if more than that is too much for you?
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This is the girl you think dresses too "revealing" at work, right?
Very good point! At that age, I wouldn't have dared to tell him I wasn't done yet.
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I have a different perspective.
I'm thinking she's not getting as much from these sex episodes as the OP.
That's why she's asking to do it twice in one evening. She's thinking OP will feel she's really into him and she's hoping she'll actually become satisfied the 2nd time around.
Doesn't mean the OP is doing anything wrong in the bedroom so much as it might mean that she's not gotten very good at expressing her precise needs during sex.
Unless she is a nymphomaniac, she isn't going to be like this forever. She's young, at the beginning of a relationship and enjoys sex with you. Enjoy it while you can, and by all means TELL her if you are too tired to go at it again, and find other ways to please her. Are you certain she's achieving orgasm the first time? If not, it may be that round 1 just leaves her wanting round 2.
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Dude, don't you know about giving her a couple of Os before you actually do the deed so that you only have to go once if more than that is too much for you?
Unless she is a nymphomaniac, she isn't going to be like this forever. She's young, at the beginning of a relationship and enjoys sex with you. Enjoy it while you can, and by all means TELL her if you are too tired to go at it again, and find other ways to please her. Are you certain she's achieving orgasm the first time? If not, it may be that round 1 just leaves her wanting round 2.
People often say that about a woman not being that way forever, as though her sex drive will die off. Not if it's a good relationship, it won't. And then when she's in her mid- to late-30s, and her estrogen drops but her testosterone stays the same, she'll be even more randy. I actually grew to feel sorry for guys, like "how do they LIVE like this?"
I dated a girl who wanted sex non stop. Not frequently, but non stop. It was great for a few months and then it just got old. I stopped even being turned on by it. I am not talking every day, I am talking 3-5 times a day every day and her using toys in between. She also watched extreme porn, was into way, way, way out of the box kink. Normally I would not be into a woman like this, but she was also so submissive, quiet and polite. She just had this way about her. If you met her out in public, you'd NEVER guess she was this way.
At the end of the day, it split us up. It was just so over the top, I started feeling like I was not satisfying her. One day I woke up and realized no man would ever satisfy her all the way. She had problems.
Sexually compatibility is extremely important in a relationship.
Havent had time to go through all these replies iwill do later.
I just feel like i cant say anything without people jumping to conclusions to soon, i start threads just looking for opinions im not saying im going to cover her up and not let her wear what she wants i didnt say that. I dont mean i think she will cheat now i just mean way she goes on about sex is like its all that matters to her.
Im just not used to a high drive and wanted to hear from people who have had this before themselves and how they dealt with it thats all.
She told me that my pants were to tight the other day and asked if i had to go for such a tight look as it exposed my bulge. But i suppose thats ok because she is a woman right?
This is an "opportunity" to learn something that is important for any long term relationship (marriage too).
Talk to Her and Tell her exactly that. Communicate!!!
I'm telling you because my wife and I are going through a rough time.... its precisely because I went somewhere else to vent and talk rather than going to her. And she did the same thing. A healthy relationship should make one feel comfortable about talking the most intimate, awkward, private topics.
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