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It's totally fine not going in to it if you do not want to go into specifics, just let the other person know your not comfortable talking about your past.
Anyone who just blatantly avoids the past or treats it like it hasn't existed or only chooses to focus on the parts that they "like" is more of warning to me than someone who "just doesn't like" talking about it.
If you're the type who wants this open type of dialogue, it's best to NOT consider those who value the opposite.
If I were looking at getting serious with some one I definitely want to know about their past ,the past always has an influence on the future , one way or another.
I was told I talked too much about past relationships...the next chick I dated I was much more tight lipped...she didn't seem to give two shats
my wife and I told each other a LOT over the years...my extremely promiscuous past horrified her LOL...she thought something was wrong with me (probably was)...but she knows I was careful, never caught a disease or had an unwanted pregnancy...
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