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Basically she says she understands, but doesn't get why I have a problem and her friend doesn't. She said she was young and it was meaningless and that I shouldn't worry. I actually had to hang out with him with all of them today. Doesn't feel right and prob will never. Oh well. Kinda wish I had an ex to bring around to turn the tables.
she doesn't want to be around her ex - her friend is dating him.
Ehh....not buying it. She could very easily have a conversation with her friend about the situation.
Instead she chooses to continue putting her man in an uncomfortable spot.
From Original Post "Fast forward to about 7 months ago and this same guy is now dating one of my GF’s friends. As a result, I have had to be around him more and more frequently due her friend’s relationship."
"Another thing that bothered me is one time while drinking, my GF’s friend bragged about how big his penis is and my GF just smiled"
You want to be taken seriously by a man ladies??? Cutoff the exes completely.
Situations like this are the reason why men end up putting you in the FWB category.
OP, I personally wouldn't invest any emotional energy into this one.
Keep it physical if you want. Have fun. But don't hold your breath waiting for her to see the light.
Last edited by usamathman; 08-12-2015 at 09:34 AM..
I don't see how you're still dating after she texted those last few messages. Don't waste anymore time on this relationship. She doesn't respect or care for you, but someone out there will.
Her response was very defensive. Not a good sign. Not saying she's doing anything bad right now, but sometimes people get defensive when they know you have a good point.
Basically she says she understands, but doesn't get why I have a problem and her friend doesn't. She said she was young and it was meaningless and that I shouldn't worry. I actually had to hang out with him with all of them today. Doesn't feel right and prob will never. Oh well. Kinda wish I had an ex to bring around to turn the tables.
Thanks to all who replied. Very much appreciated.
You can't be serious. Granted her track record doesn't show her in a good light. She has told you that 4yrs ago, at the age of 19, she made a mistake. Move on if you don't trust her for goodness sakes and stop trying to guilt trip her for something she clearly isn't very proud of.
I mean, what exactly do you want her to do? Stop hanging around friends because you are scared the guy with a big penis is going to steal your girl? Lol. Grow up and work on your self esteem. This is embarrassing
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