Will Dating Be Much Easier for Me in My Late 30s and 40s? (wife, male)

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by mishigas73

What makes you think that they like you?

I've had sex with 4 women in my life - a 29 year old, 35 year old, 43 year old and a 45 year old



Older women are always very nice to me actually. The last one I was with blew up my ego like crazy. She kept saying how beautiful and gorgeous I was ...I was blushing hard

[Happy Shooter]

Steve was 38 in 1968 when history was made!

[Just A Guy]

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I've had sex with 4 women in my life - a 29 year old, 35 year old, 43 year old and a 45 year old



Older women are always very nice to me actually. The last one I was with blew up my ego like crazy. She kept saying how beautiful and gorgeous I was ...I was blushing hard

Then why don't you date these women?.

[pittsflyer]

So why don't you just get with an older woman and stay with her?

That's what I did when I was 20, they never lasted more than a few years but that's better than a few years with your right hand.

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I've had sex with 4 women in my life - a 29 year old, 35 year old, 43 year old and a 45 year old



Older women are always very nice to me actually. The last one I was with blew up my ego like crazy. She kept saying how beautiful and gorgeous I was ...I was blushing hard

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by Just A Guy

Then why don't you date these women?.

I'm 25, how the fck am I going to date a 45 year old? When I'm 50, she'll be 70


the 29 year old was overweight, I slept with her out of desperation

[mishigas73]

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I'm 25, how the fck am I going to date a 45 year old?


the 29 year old was overweight, I slept with her out of desperation

*sigh*

[NewYorker11356]

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I'm 25, how the fck am I going to date a 45 year old? When I'm 50, she'll be 70


the 29 year old was overweight, I slept with her out of desperation

Right there in bold is one of your main (if not, your main) issue.

[pittsflyer]

Did you enjoy the sex and her company? If so why does it matter if she was over weight?

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I'm 25, how the fck am I going to date a 45 year old? When I'm 50, she'll be 70


the 29 year old was overweight, I slept with her out of desperation

[RJ312]

Having more sex would be good for your psyche.

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by pittsflyer

Did you enjoy the sex and her company? If so why does it matter if she was over weight?

I enjoyed her company, she was a very nice person. Felt no attraction to her and the sex was meh. She was crazy about me



I have very little tolerance for overweight women. I consider myself to be in mediocre shape right now and I have nearly a 2-1 shoulder to waist ratio.