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yea all 4 of the women wouldn't stop complimenting me and telling me how much they loved my muscles
You think that because I'm not as attracted or as interested in these women that my behavior is more attractive towards them? I don't understand, why do women want somebody who does not want them?
Your not getting it. Probably YOU are acting different, more relaxed, more personable.
Your number one problem is that you blame women, when it's you. YOU. Just you.
Until you are willing to work on yourself nothing will change. I mean seriously, how long have you been here saying the same old stuff?
While millions of guys who have less money and less looks are all having relationships.
You externalize the problem when it should be internalized.
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Even the "my 600lb life" guys, who are disabled and cant even wipe their a**es get women to date them and do everything for them
Even the drunk
Even the child-abandoners
Even the abusers
The stupid ones
The smelly ones
The unemployed
The extremely ugly
The mafioso
The guys in PRISSION
Every one of this types (and much worse) have women that LOVE THEM, except you, OP.
Women, since forever, have been next to the most despicable men in history, all terrible politicians and kings and dictators had loving wifes. Women, actually, have been enduring and accepting the WORST kind of men since forever.
You might be the bottom of the bottom of the bottom in terms of undesirable. You might be the worst man that ever existed.
When you're not attracted to a woman you're talking to, you don't really care how you come across for the most part.
However, when you're talking to a woman who you're attracted to, then you're likely to start overthinking or get more nervous.
I'm always worried I will say the wrong thing/s. Doesn't matter how they look. I'm the type of guy who says a bad word when I slice my hand open. When I see someone with a nice classic car, I'll pull up next to them and ask questions. If a bat flies through the barn/garage, I'll get the fishing net or some carb/brake cleaner.....
Some women don't like those sort of things.
"Polished" and "proper" I am not!
Whoops, I just ripped the crotch out of my pants.....
If you dont learn to settle it does NOT get easier. The thing to look forward too is the decreased sex drive so you care less about dating. But if you can learn to settle and as you get older it will get even easier.
If you dont learn to settle it does NOT get easier. The thing to look forward too is the decreased sex drive so you care less about dating. But if you can learn to settle and as you get older it will get even easier.
From what I've heard, age doesn't necessarily correlate with a sex drive. That basically depends on the person/people involved.
No! It gets harder the older you get. A lot of women in their late 30's have baggage, have been divorced and have kids. Are you going to sign up to raise somebody else's children?
From what I've heard, age doesn't necessarily correlate with a sex drive. That basically depends on the person/people involved.
What kind of physical shape you are in and any medical conditions you might have going on.
If you still have muscle mass, you still have testosterone.
Ever notice how most men age 75 and up start to shrivel up and have loose skin hanging all over the place, especially on their arms? Their jeans sag in the butt because they lost all their muscle tone in their cheeks, now just a bony skeleton?
No! It gets harder the older you get. A lot of women in their late 30's have baggage, have been divorced and have kids. Are you going to sign up to raise somebody else's children?
I don't mind children. In fact my nephews tell me I am their favorite all the time.
I think they are just waiting for me to kick off so they get all this COOL stuff!
yea all 4 of the women wouldn't stop complimenting me and telling me how much they loved my muscles
You think that because I'm not as attracted or as interested in these women that my behavior is more attractive towards them? I don't understand, why do women want somebody who does not want them?
No. Women do want guys who are interested in them.
You were interested enough to hook up with these women, apparently.
My guess is that women you do not consider to be "up to your standards" are women you're more relaxed and being yourself around, so they are more likely to be interested in you.
The women you want create major anxiety for you and they sense this anxiety, which turns them off.
And ruins your chances of dating any of them.
Fix that.
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