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yea but it doesn't seem to be an option man. I can't seem to find a decent looking gal who wants anything to do with me
Hey, I understand. I was a shy guy too. The night I met my wife, one of my buddies literally put his hand on my lower back and pushed me into her so I would talk to her. I wasn't the best looking guy, never worked out a day in my life but she thought I was cute and that's all that mattered. Once we had our introductions it was on.
You need to find that extra gear. For the record, if you do decide to wait, I have no trouble talking to women now that I'm in my 40s so there's that..
Oh come on. All he's looking for is someone who's a 7/10 or above, likes working out, is a foodie but has a great body, likes football and baseball but is feminine, doesn't have a competitive high powered job but isn't a gold digger, and watches all the TV shows he likes. Why is that so wrong?
actually all I'm looking for is a 6/10 or higher who is a good person, everything else is negotiable
Personally, I became much pickier in my 40s than I was in my 20s. I knew what I did and did not want, and had no problem passing on men if any of the traits I (felt) needed were not present; or, the reverse.
I had a good life, good friends and loved being alone. I would rather have stayed home and binge watched Netflix than to spend time with a guy who wasn't right for me.
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If anything I think that's why he's getting the cougars and gay men. If I were either of those, on the prowl, I'd want to hook up with someone shallow and uncomplicated. Very casual.
He's a short term fun toy for them. whether Its a month or 3. Highly a measure for how desirable he is to other successful professionals his age.
Personally, I became much pickier in my 40s than I was in my 20s. I knew what I did and did not want, and had no problem passing on men if any of the traits I (felt) needed were not present; or, the reverse.
then explain what's happening to me. Why have women in their 40s been so receptive to me?
then explain what's happening to me. Why have women in their 40s been so receptive to me?
I think it's you. You are acting different around them (because that's not who you want), and are being more appealing.
Can't rule out that you ARE good looking. Women in their 40s have no problem with having a boy toy.
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I think it's you. You are acting different around them (because that's not who you want), and are being more appealing.
Can't rule out that you ARE good looking. Women in their 40s have no problem with having a boy toy.
yea all 4 of the women wouldn't stop complimenting me and telling me how much they loved my muscles
You think that because I'm not as attracted or as interested in these women that my behavior is more attractive towards them? I don't understand, why do women want somebody who does not want them?
I think you should be very conscious that time is running out for you, minute by minute.
Tick tock.
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