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Old 01-27-2016, 12:52 PM
 
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How have you suffered?

Had women cheat on you? Had women treat you like an idiot? Been hurt before have we?

NEWSFLASH! we've all been hurt in the past but we don't take it out on our current partners and especially when they have done nothing wrong mate!.

Honestly sit back and think if she acted like you do and pushed ALL her issues on you and treated YOU the same way how would you feel?
Yes i' been cheated, got divorced, been manipulated, ex wife took a large amount of money...Only the worst...
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Stop being a baby. Don't act like this. You can be the adult that you are and take a step toward HAPPINESS instead of just throwing up your hands and giving up.

People here are trying to tell you how.
I'm not a baby, just someone with a long list of emotional problems!
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OP was not hearing what he wanted to hear.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:56 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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It's always a good idea to let your past ruin your future.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:57 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Yes i' been cheated, got divorced, been manipulated, ex wife took a large amount of money...Only the worst...

I'm not a baby, just someone with a long list of emotional problems!
Yes but that's not HER fault is it mate that's the whole point
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:57 PM
 
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Anyway thanks for all you support on helping me! I know i've got real serious issues but about my girlfriend i think i have a right to be concerned about this guy as her facebook friend. Well, it doesn't matter right now, if she's having sex with him i hope i find out quickly so i can dump her for real!
I can't see a therapist because is very expensive and i can't afford right now! So i don't have any exit...What i should do? Single for the rest of my life because i'll never be strong enough to overcome this ****!
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yes i' been cheated, got divorced, been manipulated, ex wife took a large amount of money...Only the worst...

I'm not a baby, just someone with a long list of emotional problems!
So you just want to stay that way, and make OTHER women pay for your ex's transgressions by being manipulative and controlling??????

What to do? Keep reading the book you're reading.

And this:

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archive...fford-therapy/
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:58 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Josh... Do you have an alcohol or drug problem? You seem to act like it.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:58 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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What i should do? Single for the rest of my life because i'll never be strong enough to overcome this ****!



Not the rest of your life. Yes, until you can fix yourself. Breaks are good.
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Old 01-27-2016, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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You guys are calling me sick, crazy , that i need therapy...you don't know what i've been through. Don't understand my past, how much i've suffered in my entire love life!

So your current GF should be punished for that?
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Old 01-27-2016, 01:08 PM
 
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So your current GF should be punished for that?
Yeah if she wasn't a friend of an ex **** buddy on facebook she wouldn't be "punished"!
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Old 01-27-2016, 01:11 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Yeah if she wasn't a friend of an ex **** buddy on facebook she wouldn't be "punished"!
OK I get it. You're pulling our leg. Right?
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