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Are you REALLY that excited or do you just like to do it to get attention? I just have a hard time picturing someone jumping up and down and squealing out of genuine delight over a stuffed animal.
Anyway, if that's who you truly are and you aren't just trying to be cute or get attention - then you should just continue to be who you are. The right person will appreciate you for who you are. If you are doing this to be cute or get attention, I suggest you cut it out. And lastly, if you know that when you act like this over a stuffed animal or an outfit it stresses him out, then I think the nice thing to do would be to stop doing it. That way he doesn't feel like you expect him to buy you things that he can't afford.
So you know that many of the threads here end in one of two directions:
Grow up,.. etc.. you are the problem.
OR
Dump him/her
I still say that the most important person to be truthful to is yourself.
You remind me of a HS friend of mine... she was a lot of fun.. really knew how to live life. She went through a couple of divorces and became a single mother. No matter what she was still that bubbly self that looked at life always looking to celebrate the small good things in her life. yeh.. she knew how to party loud .. lol She's re-married again now.. for a long time now. Found a great guy who takes full role as a father and husband. They are expecting another child. Finished law school and is a divorce attorney (oddly enough). We recently reconnected and from our last phone call, she hasn't changed one bit... I'm glad.
My ex was always trying to get me to not embarrass him. It got REALLY old, really quick. (plus, it embarrassed me when he behaved like a grumpy old man and scolded me in front of others). When I meet guys who are super self conscious about how my behavior might attract attention to them, I hit the road (Granted, I am more mature than I used to be, but I still like to have a good time and I can be kinda loud when I'm goofing around)
IMHO it doesn't sound like you are very compatible.
I've read some threads before joining. You're talking about that girl who always talks about her boyfriends mom being mean and crying when she yells.
Take a lesson from her. If your BFs mother criticizes your behavior (or does your BF just say that she does?) then you need to establish some boundaries, or maybe priorities, really quickly.
If that's who you are, that's who you are (assuming you're not just seeking attention) and if he doesn't like it, he's not likely to change his mind. Cut your losses now. He won't change, and you shouldn't have to (again, assuming this isn't some cutesy act you put on for attention.)
Also wanted to say I agree with stan4 - just saw his post so I'm editing - your behavior is probably really off putting - you might want to take a look at it - squealing, jumping up and down and dancing about a restaurant is NOT "bubbly". Really.
I don't know why women think baby talk or acting like a kid is sexy or attractive.
It's not. It's so super the opposite of sexy.
I like people who are positive and find enjoyment in things, but squealing about going to a restaurant? Seriously?
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But it's ok you are young. Don't let the fuddy duddies get you down.
