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Old 04-13-2016, 06:25 PM
 
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I still have all my exs on my Facebook. I dont talk to them or anything. They like or comment on my pictures but I dont respond. My husband saw one of my exs commented on the picture of our baby I posted and he got mad and left the house. The comment just said "Congratulations.. You have a beautiful little one".

Please advice what to do. I tried to explain to him that I just dont delete anyone on fb that I added as a friend just because we are no longer together. He seems really pissed about it.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:29 PM
 
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Tell him to get over it. It's not like you've given him any reason to be suspicious right? What a ridiculous thing to be mad about. My goodness.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:29 PM
 
Location: Atlantis
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Get a DNA test on the child and your husband to confirm it is his.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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He just needed a reason to leave the house without an explanation. And I am pretty sure you will not ask where he went
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Tell him to get over it. It's not like you've given him any reason to be suspicious right? What a ridiculous thing to be mad about. My goodness.
That's my feeling as well. But maybe the best thing to do would be to sit down and ask him why he's so upset about a comment on Facebook. Maybe there is something else going on with him?
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Ralphs
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I still have all my exs on my Facebook. I dont talk to them or anything. They like or comment on my pictures but I dont respond. My husband saw one of my exs commented on the picture of our baby I posted and he got mad and left the house. The comment just said "Congratulations.. You have a beautiful little one".

Please advice what to do. I tried to explain to him that I just dont delete anyone on fb that I added as a friend just because we are no longer together. He seems really pissed about it.
He's being unreasonable. The comment was totally benign.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Get a DNA test on the child and your husband to confirm it is his.
He is not questioning the paternity...
He is just acting out because of insecurity. I would just ignore it (or it will escalate), and act normal as nothing happened. (That's what people do with acting-out kids. It usually helps)
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Maybe he was pissed about something else, and ended up focusing on this extremely trivial (if at that) comment from an ex, which was completely benign.

Has this ex tried to do something with you in the past while you're with your husband? Do you think he secretly doesn't like that the exes keep in contact with you?

Weird. I would to talk to him about this for sure.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Geez.

What a goober.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:43 PM
 
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That's my feeling as well. But maybe the best thing to do would be to sit down and ask him why he's so upset about a comment on Facebook. Maybe there is something else going on with him?
Hes mad because my exs still has a way of reaching out to me. But Ive never replied to any and this ex and I have been broken up for a long time. Another ex texted me before and we fought abouut that too. I eneded up deleting all my exs number on my phine. Like I said I dont reply when they contact me.
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