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I never said I was struggling to get a job. I said I could never work a job that wasn't easy. I also said I have money and don't need one. The only reason I have worked in the past was because I thought it would help me get girls. It didn't, so why work?
How do I have money?? The same way all rich kids do, inheritance. Completely useless when you can't get girls though since money doesn't create happiness, love does.
If that's true, how do you drive around in a Maserati all day?
I'm serious. It takes balls to drive an exclusive car make because of all the attention it can bring. Being SO shy and incapable of interaction, how do you deal with the attention?
And don't just say that you live in a rich area and everyone around you drives a nice ride.
Look I'm no Brad Pitt, but I am pretty damn cute, objectively. I'd say I'm 7/10. I'm not going to turn heads, but I'd definitely make a girl uneasy if I had my shirt off. I have money, so it's not that. I drive a Maserati and live in an upscale neighborhood in orange county. I'm not a billionaire, but I get by. The only thing I don't have is social skills (crippling social anxiety) and I'm passive. Women want an aggressor with social skills. Looks and money seem completely worthless if you're shy. It's so unfair. I see ugly poor men with girls because they have social skills. It seems like no amount of positive qualities can overcome being a shy male. I'm 22 and am graduating college dateless. I feel like I'm less than nothing because of my failure with the opposite sex.
Your username could be the cause of your problems with women.
Why are you so resistant to getting help from your social skills? Take some initiative and do something to improve yourself for yourself instead of sitting around all day complaining about it. As others have already said here, get a life coach. Since you're apparently wealthy them you can definitely afford it. An investment in improving yourself for the future is a lot more valuable than buying a bunch of material things that won't help you in solving your problems.
I never said I was struggling to get a job. I said I could never work a job that wasn't easy. I also said I have money and don't need one. The only reason I have worked in the past was because I thought it would help me get girls. It didn't, so why work?
How do I have money?? The same way all rich kids do, inheritance. Completely useless when you can't get girls though since money doesn't create happiness, love does.
The whole thing about not working a job that isn't easy and being passive makes you sound really kind of pasty, weak and unmanly. When you tell me you can't work at anything too hard what I'm hearing is that you see yourself as weak and have no confidence. I think your issue is your attitude and beliefs.
The good news.......I have a solution for you my friend. Being the kind hearted soul that I am I will go ahead and take that useless inheritance off your hands. In exchange I'll hook you up with a tool belt and some tools, a job as a carpenter, and help you learn to be a little more assertive. Maybe we'll set you up to do something you don't really believe you're capable of to establish some confidence. Which would you prefer....being a Marine or climbing some brutal mountains?
Chicks dig a confident guy that can work with his hands and speak his mind directly, but respectfully. You'll be an employed guy with a good tan (we'll get you on a framing crew so you're outside all the time) and some confidence. We'll scrap that Maserati and get you in something cool like a Jeep or a Toyota 4x4 pickup. Maybe we'll go ahead and put you on a motorcycle too. Harleys are kind of overdone these days so maybe something with some retro-cool, like a Ducati Scrambler.
Let me know when you want to start the patented Toonces Path to Coolness program.
If you're looking for sympathy relationship site forums are the worst place to go as a man..Men's issues are usually met with contempt and get over it and grow some balls advice..
Look I'm no Brad Pitt, but I am pretty damn cute, objectively. I'd say I'm 7/10. I'm not going to turn heads, but I'd definitely make a girl uneasy if I had my shirt off. I have money, so it's not that. I drive a Maserati and live in an upscale neighborhood in orange county. I'm not a billionaire, but I get by. The only thing I don't have is social skills (crippling social anxiety) and I'm passive. Women want an aggressor with social skills. Looks and money seem completely worthless if you're shy. It's so unfair. I see ugly poor men with girls because they have social skills. It seems like no amount of positive qualities can overcome being a shy male. I'm 22 and am graduating college dateless. I feel like I'm less than nothing because of my failure with the opposite sex.
Why would a 7-rated, self-described "female slayer" need to even get CD advice in the first place?
The fact that you can see no middle ground between being so socially inept/anxious that you literally cannot talk to people and being "dominated" shows how much you have to learn. I wouldn't expect a girlfriend anytime soon.
If you're looking for sympathy relationship site forums are the worst place to go as a man..Men's issues are usually met with contempt and get over it and grow some balls advice..
It's interesting that you would categorize the OP's issue as a 'men's' issue. It is not like ED or male pattern baldness - he has a mental/cognitive issue (or ten).
Your username could be the cause of your problems with women.
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Bang on.
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