Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Look I'm no Brad Pitt, but I am pretty damn cute, objectively. I'd say I'm 7/10. I'm not going to turn heads, but I'd definitely make a girl uneasy if I had my shirt off. I have money, so it's not that. I drive a Maserati and live in an upscale neighborhood in orange county. I'm not a billionaire, but I get by. The only thing I don't have is social skills (crippling social anxiety) and I'm passive. Women want an aggressor with social skills. Looks and money seem completely worthless if you're shy. It's so unfair. I see ugly poor men with girls because they have social skills. It seems like no amount of positive qualities can overcome being a shy male. I'm 22 and am graduating college dateless. I feel like I'm less than nothing because of my failure with the opposite sex.
__________________ ____________________________________________
My posts as a Mod will always be in red.
Be sure to review Terms of Service: TOS
And check this out: FAQ
Moderator: Relationships Forum / Hawaii Forum / Dogs / Pets / Current Events
Why would making a girl uneasy be something to brag about?
Congrats on graduation, though, bruh.
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. When I feel 'uneasy' I think, 'queasy' like ready to barf.
There are plenty of hot, young women in the OC who would throw themselves at any guy with what you've got OP - money, Maserati, etc. I can't believe one of them hasn't latched onto you yet. What gives? Take some of your mucho money and hire a life coach. I am dead serious - they are indispensable in the case of people like yourself.
Get professional help for your social anxiety. We can't say anything here that we haven't already posted on your earlier thread. This forum isn't for venting, it's mainly for asking for advice. And you've already been given all the advice we have for you. Anything further would be a re-hash. You know what the problem is; go do something about it.
Just maybe your poor attitude about women is your problem, not your lack for forceful domination. Personally, I'd be backpedaling away from you double quick and all it took was one paragraph to tip me off.
The big news to you is that whoever told you all it takes to "get" women is money and a fancy car (oh, and looks) either lied or didn't know what they were talking about. Surprise, surprise.
Too bad you're not an ugly, runty, half-broke guy, OP. Life would be so much easier.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
