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Old 05-20-2016, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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He's married. There's your closure.

 
Old 05-20-2016, 02:32 PM
 
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Mod cut. The guy was probably just having a bit of on-line fun. Not sure why he would disclose his work information, that is kind of risky. But the woman sounds completely unglued ...

Last edited by PJSaturn; 05-20-2016 at 07:14 PM.. Reason: Off-topic.
 
Old 05-20-2016, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Manhattan, NYC
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If you do not meet a person for 2 years, that itself should be self explanatory... all the online attention should not be of relevance at this point.
 
Old 05-20-2016, 02:35 PM
 
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No we spoke over phone usually in the evenings around 7:00..since we had time diff & all, he was in Eastcoast , I was in Midwest, we spoke ocassionally but texting was more convenient since we had time diff & also that I was single myself , I preferred much texting.

Two years was a good time to develop some emotions , I'm not saying I'm sitting & weeping 18 hours a day. I feel painful yes, but my heart is just in denial even now , this never happened to me in my entire life.
He cared for me so much over texts & calls that is paining me even now. I only think he started this casually was lied but eventually the connection grew & I guess he was afraid If he would disclose I would end everything.
Because, I ended it for some reasons all the communication in between a few times & he would call me , plead me to continue & would state he can't wait to see me & hangout in DC once I move back
 
Old 05-20-2016, 02:37 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Did you ever meet in person?


You're lucky his only scam was your heart.
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Old 05-20-2016, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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I'm truly sorry, but there is something wrong with both of you that requires medical attention. Not giving you closure is the only normal thing that happened in this "relationship".
 
Old 05-20-2016, 02:38 PM
 
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Not true guys. Please, I'm here for a reason. I'm not a student here doing any research.
This happened to me first time in my life.
No games.
I;m reading all your replies & coming to an understanding slowly.
The more replies the better, perhaps I will feel better soon
 
Old 05-20-2016, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Unfortunately, there is no magical way to get over this. It will just take time.

The BEST way to get over it is to LEARN from your mistakes and be more discerning next time.
 
Old 05-20-2016, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Denver and Boston
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Would it make you feel better if you learned that the guy you have been texting for two years was not married, that he was really an ugly unemployed single guy that just used the pictures of the good looking CEO to catfish you?
 
Old 05-20-2016, 02:48 PM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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Originally Posted by janet16 View Post
Not true guys. Please, I'm here for a reason. I'm not a student here doing any research.
This happened to me first time in my life.
No games.
I;m reading all your replies & coming to an understanding slowly.
The more replies the better, perhaps I will feel better soon
who you talk to is a Romance scammer go to below link there you find more info.
Romance Scams
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