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Old 07-20-2016, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I'm just curious if a guy I'm interested in would be flattered or think I'm a crazy.

I went to highschool and college with him and noticed on fb he is still single.

I recently went out with a guy friend at the casino's and everyone thought we were a couple. It boost my confidence that I still got it.


Guys would you think horrible things or think wow she's bold I like some one who is assertive?
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:17 PM
 
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I think some do but others are totally fine with it.

What is this guy's personality like? How well did you know one another?
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I'm just curious if a guy I'm interested in would be flattered or think I'm a crazy.

I went to highschool and college with him and noticed on fb he is still single.

I recently went out with a guy friend at the casino's and everyone thought we were a couple. It boost my confidence that I still got it.


Guys would you think horrible things or think wow she's bold I like some one who is assertive?
I know this is horrible but subconsciously when a girl asks me out the very first thing I think is "what is wrong with her that she puts herself out there for me?" While I'd be flattered, I typically come to the realization of there is a reason of why I didn't approach her in the first place.
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:25 PM
 
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He is very funny, easy going, outdoorsy, tree hugger. Lol
We had many classes together and because of our last names he was always behind my seat. We took art classes together and art classes in college.
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:26 PM
 
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I'm just curious if a guy I'm interested in would be flattered or think I'm a crazy.

I went to highschool and college with him and noticed on fb he is still single.

I recently went out with a guy friend at the casino's and everyone thought we were a couple. It boost my confidence that I still got it.


Guys would you think horrible things or think wow she's bold I like some one who is assertive?
some guys cant see the forest for the trees. if they cant handle being asked out by a girl, then they have issues. personally i would love for a girl to ask me out if she wants to go out with me.
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:27 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I'm just curious if a guy I'm interested in would be flattered or think I'm a crazy.

I went to highschool and college with him and noticed on fb he is still single.

I recently went out with a guy friend at the casino's and everyone thought we were a couple. It boost my confidence that I still got it.


Guys would you think horrible things or think wow she's bold I like some one who is assertive?
Hun I'd be extremely flattered if any women firstly showed interest and above all acted upon it and be over the moon If I did like her

The way I look at it is .... If I like someone either way I'm going to obviously go all out to pull her ( as im sure you won't be too shocked by lmao ) so if she does the same before I do then I'm chuffed

Do you think there is any mutual attraction?, .... In short I'd go for it my love
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I know this is horrible but subconsciously when a girl asks me out the very first thing I think is "what is wrong with her that she puts herself out there for me?" While I'd be flattered, I typically come to the realization of there is a reason of why I didn't approach her in the first place.
Nope I like truthfulness.

Do you ever approach women?
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Nope I like truthfulness.

Do you ever approach women?
In OLD all the time. IRL rarely.
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:32 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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some guys cant see the forest for the trees. if they cant handle being asked out by a girl, then they have issues. personally i would love for a girl to ask me out if she wants to go out with me.
Couldn't agree more......

To be quite frank I think they're weird myself mate..... There's not many bigger compliments being asked out by a lady......

How the heck can't you handle that?
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Old 07-20-2016, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Pa
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some guys cant see the forest for the trees. if they cant handle being asked out by a girl, then they have issues. personally i would love for a girl to ask me out if she wants to go out with me.
That's my thinking to that he may have issues with take charge women. I'm glad to hear some men would like it.
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