Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 07-20-2016, 09:07 PM
 
Location: colorado springs, CO
9,512 posts, read 6,096,551 times
Reputation: 28836

Advertisements

I know how lame this sounds but I would never, in a million years, ask a guy out.

I would probably drop some hints & see if he "bites" but thats just me.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 07-20-2016, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Pa
42,763 posts, read 52,848,332 times
Reputation: 25362
Quote:
Originally Posted by D217 View Post
I think if you already know the guy, then suggesting a casual hang out (to determine if there's mutual feelings) is fine.. ~ But generally not if you expect to be treated "like a date." You present an opportunity for him to then purse, or not.. But I'd say most men are dtf , so just keep that bit in mind if you want 'more' from the exchange.. (just my 2)
Nope don't want a dtf. I recently got a fwb, don't need one.:P
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-20-2016, 09:10 PM
 
Location: Pa
42,763 posts, read 52,848,332 times
Reputation: 25362
Quote:
Originally Posted by coschristi View Post
I know how lame this sounds but I would never, in a million years, ask a guy out.

I would probably drop some hints & see if he "bites" but thats just me.
Eh did it before, its not awful. Sometimes surprised to find out they had a crush on me.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-20-2016, 09:47 PM
 
33,387 posts, read 34,830,354 times
Reputation: 20030
Quote:
Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30 View Post
Couldn't agree more......

To be quite frank I think they're weird myself mate..... There's not many bigger compliments being asked out by a lady......

How the heck can't you handle that?
i never had a problem. my last girlfriend often times asked me out as often as i asked her out. in fact she was the one that invited me along on a weekend trip to visit her sister in north carolina on the outer bank.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-20-2016, 09:52 PM
 
78,352 posts, read 60,556,941 times
Reputation: 49638
Quote:
Originally Posted by Raena77 View Post
I'm just curious if a guy I'm interested in would be flattered or think I'm a crazy.

I went to highschool and college with him and noticed on fb he is still single.

I recently went out with a guy friend at the casino's and everyone thought we were a couple. It boost my confidence that I still got it.


Guys would you think horrible things or think wow she's bold I like some one who is assertive?
It's 2015......unless you are asking a guy out to play shuffleboard at the nursing home....you should be safe unless they have issues.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-20-2016, 09:56 PM
 
914 posts, read 765,697 times
Reputation: 1439
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mathguy View Post
It's 2015......unless you are asking a guy out to play shuffleboard at the nursing home....you should be safe unless they have issues.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-20-2016, 09:59 PM
 
125 posts, read 173,859 times
Reputation: 76
I would not believe it at first but I would be flattered and think the female is courageous at the same time. I would then accept it and then go on a date with the female.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-20-2016, 10:05 PM
 
Location: Pa
42,763 posts, read 52,848,332 times
Reputation: 25362
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mathguy View Post
It's 2015......unless you are asking a guy out to play shuffleboard at the nursing home....you should be safe unless they have issues.
Quote:
Originally Posted by TenorSax83 View Post
Um.......lol

It's 2016.....thought I was getting old.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-20-2016, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
42,763 posts, read 52,848,332 times
Reputation: 25362
Quote:
Originally Posted by Yamato2 View Post
I would not believe it at first but I would be flattered and think the female is courageous at the same time. I would then accept it and then go on a date with the female.
I asked him out.Now I wait.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-20-2016, 10:50 PM
 
10,342 posts, read 5,862,640 times
Reputation: 17885
Quote:
Originally Posted by Raena77 View Post
I asked him out.Now I wait.
See that's how it's done people! You wonder if you should ask someone out, you get some opinions, and only 3 hours and 5 pages later it's done!

Good job
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top