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How would you like it if you learned that someone wrote a thread about you on a forum - how "ugly" and unattractive you are and how low they had to settle for you? Poor lady.
I would pass overall. Doesn't sound like a healthy thing. Even if you threw her a bone so to speak and got chummy with her, what's with the three guy restraining order. That seems odd, who knows what she constitutes as stalking and all she has to do if she feels slighted by you is go to the local police station and as far as I know can put in a statement about you stalking her. Not being paranoid and I'm not that guy at all, but I gotta say that thought did creep in my mind reading your post.
I found after suffering through an epically long drought, my standards became slightly lowered.
Not to the point where I'd nearly get with any woman there was, but I'd find myself becoming attracted to girls that I might have just thought were average a year or two before that.
Like a girl at this convenience store I frequented when I lived in Imperial Beach. I remember thinking "she's cute, what? You don't like her? What's wrong with her?" To my roommates at the time. They didn't dig her so much. She was either engaged or married, so it never became of anything.
Whatever makes you happy though. Just because you're dating her does not mean that you have to make a commitment to her or be steady. Maybe eventually you'll have to be, if you'd like to continue seeing her. But just seeing her a few time for now? Nothing wrong with that.
I quote eminem "give me a fat slug that cooks and does dishes" LOL
Seriously though i've dated some 5's and some hot ones and i'm not a hot guy but i'm not ugly either. I guess my height helps i'm 6'3 and on occasion i "got game" lol
My recent contacts on POF
i had a marriage proposal after she messaged me "i want you" without ever talking to me lol... Then another woman wanted to cuddle with me "i want to be in your arms" just one day after talking to me...
These women were serious but honestly POF is full of women with baggage and just generally nuts. And don't get me started at how easy it is to talk sexual with them lol I'm a guy that's a given that men are dirty but the women on there have no filter either.
But believe me I've been in the quantity over quality phase. This will pass...
I don't think its has anything to do with quantity or quality; its about getting anything right now for the OP.
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