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To be honest, Dave, you look at lot older than you say you are. Maybe that's why you're only attracting the over 40 crowd.
I don't know what he looks like, but if he's picking up women intheir 40s at bars, he's hanging out at the wrong bars (hanging out with an older crowd at older crowd venues).
So let me ask you a question, why would cute young women not find me attractive if the rest of the world finds me to be very handsome? What's different about their standards? i'm very curious
Because you're chubby and generic-looking, according to most of your pix. Not that that's a problem, but it means you have to get women's attention with charm of one sort or another, not via looks.
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oh and I'm not into thin. I said in shape. Big difference. I'm into women with thick thighs, big butt and small waist. The more voluptous the better
This is part of your problem. There are very few women like that out there. You're casting way too small a net. It's ridiculous, honestly. And in the past, you've said you'd be happy with an average (=healthy weight) cute woman with a good personality. Then other times, you insist you have to have one of those beefy gym-model types.
You're sabotaging yourself in multiple ways, and you don't see it. You'll never see it.
Explain to me why I CONSISTENTLY have women in their late 30s and 40s approach me or make themselves very available for me to approach them and it never happens with anybody cute and close to my age. I can't remember the last cute girl my age to give me even slightest indication that they were interested.
The cute ones my age are much much much much harder to please. A woman over 40, even if very attractive like the ones I was seeing, just wants a normal nice guy who will treat her great, have great sex with her everyday, who looks good and works out, etc... normal stuff.
I just saw this. To me it sounds like you are hanging out with an older crowd at older crowd places. You'd be had pressed to find many 40 year old women at the places 20 year olds hang out.
But I agree with Ruth. Get a shrink first. You keep exaggerating and making up facts and it seems like you really believe it. You have some issues you need to work through and you'll be a better man for it. What do you have to lose?
I just saw this. To me it sounds like you are hanging out with an older crowd at older crowd places. You'd be had pressed to find many 40 year old women at the places 20 year olds hang out.
But I agree with Ruth. Get a shrink first. You keep exaggerating and making up facts and it seems like you really believe it. You have some issues you need to work through and you'll be a better man for it. What do you have to lose?
Because you're chubby and generic-looking, according to most of your pix. Not that that's a problem, but it means you have to get women's attention with charm of one sort or another, not via looks.
This is part of your problem. There are very few women like that out there. You're casting way too small a net. It's ridiculous, honestly. And in the past, you've said you'd be happy with an average (=healthy weight) cute woman with a good personality. Then other times, you insist you have to have one of those gym-model types.
You're sabotaging yourself in multiple ways, and you don't see it. You'll never see it.
No, he never will see it. He has already posted about the woman who is his ideal in every way and according to him she's interested too, but he doesn't see her either because she's 50 lbs too heavy. How rich, coming from a chubby guy. You can't even lead him to the water.
Because you're chubby and generic-looking, according to most of your pix. Not that that's a problem
I was about 220 couple years ago. I'm 180 LBs now. I can literally see all 6 of my abs and my face looks great. I get more attention and compliments now than I've ever gotten.
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This is part of your problem. There are very few women like that out there. You're casting way too small a net. It's ridiculous, honestly. And in the past, you've said you'd be happy with an average (=healthy weight) cute woman with a good personality. Then other times, you insist you have to have one of those gym-model types.
You're sabotaging yourself in multiple ways, and you don't see it. You'll never see it.
My preference is for voluptous/athletic so as close to that as possible
Just about every woman I see at my gym who is my age has a nice body
I was about 220 couple years ago. I'm 180 LBs now. I can literally see all 6 of my abs and my face looks great. I get more attention and compliments now than I've ever gotten.
My preference is for voluptous/athletic so as close to that as possible
Just about every woman I see at my gym who is my age has a nice body
Just about every exotic car on the 405 has a nice body. Doesn't mean I will ever get to ride one.
Just about every exotic car on the 405 has a nice body. Doesn't mean I will ever get to ride one.
that 40 year old woman I was seeing had such an amazing body, good god almighty. Natural DDD breasts, very narrow waist, nice thick legs, nice butt, wider hips.
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