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Originally Posted by back2MD
The issue being a single mom. It's like I'm a pariah.
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It can make finding a match tougher.
But usually that difficulty is related to out of context parenting age ranges.
Such as when the kids come earlier or later than the "norms" in your world...
and of course how well fixed you each are regarding the costs of parenthood.
eg: a 50something woman with middle school age kids she had later in life
and represent no less than another ten years of commitment and responsibility
and expense before the Mom is available for the sort of post parenting empty nest
lifestyle that most of the age appropriate men would be ready for then.
(my personal dilemma btw)
The alternative is finding new partners in a similar set of commitment and responsibility
and expense circumstances that they can hunker down with for the duration.
These men are easier to find at 30something than 50something...
but each one is likely to be financially stretched, emotionally worn and time limited...
just like the women they mirror.
The pariah isn't the person... it's the circumstances of their reality.