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For us to give you appropriate advice, it helps to understand (in general) your sexual history and your attitude about it.
You're free, of course, to have your own ideas about what sex should be like but the challenge, and what you're describing as difficult, is that you have to find someone who's approach to sex is similar to yours.
I'm not sure if there's a language barrier, if you're trolling or what, but you aren't being super helpful to US so it's hard for us to be helpful to you.
The way you're describing this guy and your interactions is actually pretty naive. If I had to guess I would say you are 18-19 and may have had sex once or twice but have not had a sustained romantic relationship that included regular sex.
Why I am naïve? Just because I believe he was travelling and I care about his feelings? Why being with someone has to be so complicated.
You are naive to think that having sex should require a weekend and breakfast. That is what inexperienced little girls think the "magic of sex" is supposed to entail. Talk to your mother or a trusted relative.
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For us to give you appropriate advice, it helps to understand (in general) your sexual history and your attitude about it.
You're free, of course, to have your own ideas about what sex should be like but the challenge, and what you're describing as difficult, is that you have to find someone who's approach to sex is similar to yours.
I'm not sure if there's a language barrier, if you're trolling or what, but you aren't being super helpful to US so it's hard for us to be helpful to you.
The way you're describing this guy and your interactions is actually pretty naive. If I had to guess I would say you are 18-19 and may have had sex once or twice but have not had a sustained romantic relationship that included regular sex.
Just curious....maybe this has already been answered, but....
The statement "It's too painful for me" came via text message. It's entirely possible this was a weak attempt at playfulness. This all seems like way too much over-analyzing to me.....
Just curious....maybe this has already been answered, but....
The statement "It's too painful for me" came via text message. It's entirely possible this was a weak attempt at playfulness. This all seems like way too much over-analyzing to me.....
Sure, he could have been trying to flirt and it didn't really come across.
Why I am naïve? Just because I believe he was travelling and I care about his feelings? Why being with someone has to be so complicated.
Well, because you don't question what he tells you. With experience, you learn that people aren't always so truthful. Maybe he is being truthful and we are completely wrong. But then again, maybe not.
Plus, he seems to be pressuring you for sex. And you seem to be withholding. Do you want to have sex with him or not?
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