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I was thinking she wants to date other men too, but even today I haven't responded to her and she's been blowing my phone up saying how much she loves me and wants to be with me... I just don't understand
Your story is all to familiar to me, and I'm a woman.
Had a boyfriend back in the day where the situation was eerily similar, just reverse the sexes. Bit of a distance, he wanted a "break", but would chase me hard whenever I tried to move on. Drove me nuts until I finally broke it off with him and told him to never contact me again. And that was the right move by far.
p.s. he did use the break time to have sex with other women...
Dude, she may technically not have cheated on you, but she most likely hooked up with another guy on her break. It seems pretty obvious. She doesn't seem sure about her feelings towards you. You deserve better. Move on.
Yeah it was friends. I really don’t think she’d cheat on me,but then again that’s what everyone thinks. She just doesn’t seem like that type of girl. I guess I’m just a young guy about to experience his first heart break. I don’t want it to happen, but it seems inevitable.
Yeah it was friends. I really don’t think she’d cheat on me,but then again that’s what everyone thinks. She just doesn’t seem like that type of girl. I guess I’m just a young guy about to experience his first heart break. I don’t want it to happen, but it seems inevitable.
There is no "type" that cheats.
Lots of women this age get into situations they don't think they can handle, and that's probably what is happening here. I seriously seriously doubt she went to the movies alone but that doesn't mean she had sex with the guy.
She already told you she needed space. How much more confirmation that she is not committed do you need???
I get blind sided by her wanting a break RIGHT before she leaves for Christmas break, keep in mind she would already be 4 hours away from me. She tells me she still loves me, but needs time to "find herself".
... the next day she texts me saying we need to talk and then says she wants to take a break... but only over Christmas break we were still gonna talk over the break, but technically wouldn't be dating and then we can"pick back up where we left off" when she gets back to school. I said I wanted us to stay exclusive and she said thats fine, but its not fair of you to say that to me. I didn't understand what that meant.
I was pissed...
I was suspicious as hell.
I was pissed so I let it be know over text.
A week or so ago, I finally had enough and said we needed to talk. So she facetimed me and I told her I was sick of being treated I mean nothing to her and how I was very suspicious of what she had been doing over the break because she had been so shady towards me. She starts crying and admits to me that she had been ignoring me on purpose, but couldn't give me a reason why, but she swears she didn't cheat on me.
I really don't want to break up with her, but if she's hooking up with other guys and stuff clearly she's not that into me anymore. What should I do?
Well everyone I’ve just officially broke it off. It’s very saddening cause she was my first love, but I’m trying to keep positive about the whole situation. I never found out fully if she did cheat on me, but obviously I had some pretty good suspicions.
Well everyone I’ve just officially broke it off. It’s very saddening cause she was my first love, but I’m trying to keep positive about the whole situation. I never found out fully if she did cheat on me, but obviously I had some pretty good suspicions.
She didn't cheat on you. Y'all were on a break. #TeamRoss
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but that doesn't mean she had sex with the guy.
