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Well everyone I’ve just officially broke it off. It’s very saddening cause she was my first love, but I’m trying to keep positive about the whole situation. I never found out fully if she did cheat on me, but obviously I had some pretty good suspicions.
It is sad, but hopefully you have learned some things.
PAY ATTENTION to your partner when they clearly tell you something.
She didn't cheat on you. Y'all were on a break. #TeamRoss
Not to nitpick, but the situations are different.
In Friends, Rachel told Ross she wanted a break from him, Ross believed her and slept with the copy shop girl. Rachel got mad at him for believing her and moving on. She wanted him waiting for whenever she came back.
In the OP’s situation, she said she wanted a break and went off with presumably other guys, then wanted to waltz right back into OPs life whenever she felt like it.
Anyway, OP, I’m sorry it went down like this for you, and hope you find someone who treats you better.
Yeah it was friends. I really don’t think she’d cheat on me,but then again that’s what everyone thinks. She just doesn’t seem like that type of girl. I guess I’m just a young guy about to experience his first heart break. I don’t want it to happen, but it seems inevitable.
Sorry man, I was there too when I was 20. I was with a girl, she was super hot and 2 years older than me. My first love. One night out of the blue she told me she wanted a break and I said no way, I want all or nothing. So I got nothing. If she wanted to end it then end it, I wasn’t about to let her drag it out so she could let me down easy.
I’m glad I did because I eventually learned that she had some dude that she worked with already lined up. They’re still together and she is no longer hot 30 yrs later. I met my awesome wife a year later and she looks better than she did when we met (and is 100x smarter than my ex too). Everything happens for a reason.
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