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Honestly...unless you've had sex, he may not be willing to commit solely to you.
For women, sex is (usually) that last box that gets checked. For men (usually), sex is what needs to happen first before we start taking about a monogamous relationship. In his mind, you're dating, but it's not "serious" yet.
If you can't muster up the energy to go on some random dates with other guys, then your feelings for this guy are probably too strong for you to handle. It might be better to back away.
The Op has said they sleep together. He still wants to keep his March account open and he is still active on it.
This exactly right. No sex yet = not serious.
"In his mind, you're dating, but it's not "serious" yet".
Having sex and not serious = chances are it will never get serious. But not necessarily so.
I thought talking on phone is an easier way as opposed to talking in person. As Most people would think talking in person is a more proper way to do it.
I think a phone call is appropriate. Why make plans to see him face to face if he is truly not interested?
I've gotten broken up with face to face...I would have managed a phone call much better. You are right, suddenly discovering that what you experienced together meant different things is embarrassing.
Don't text or suggest any activity next weekend. Does he contact you, or is his "sickness" his way of attempting a slow fade? My guess is the latter, but if I am wrong, he will contact you about next weekend.
If not, you have your answer, and it will be (way past) time to move on.
Don't text or suggest any activity next weekend. Does he contact you, or is his "sickness" his way of attempting a slow fade? My guess is the latter, but if I am wrong, he will contact you about next weekend.
If not, you have your answer, and it will be (way past) time to move on.
If he does... Have the talk in person.
I agree with this but I would leave out the talk.
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You’re his every other weekend gal.
This is why.
He probably likes the sex and maybe doesn't get as much as he would like from the other girls he is seeing.
You know he doesn't want to take down his profile. Isn't that enough? Just break up.
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If you were really smart, you would simply ignore him - go about your life - IF he calls, forward the calls to VM - after awhile, send him a text telling him you are busy.
You really ARE wasting your time, otherwise.
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